hello ! Everybody!!

do someone have problem in their "first time" (having sex) with husband.

i have.

anyone can help me?

If you already encountered the “first time” issue, then there is no more worry for “first time” in the future, no revise.. hohoho..

by the way, how to help u ler?

hi!
what i mean is, we can't even "start" our first time cos it's painful.

haha...skinny girl...how to help you?

skinnygirl,
buy more vcd or download xxx movie from net and learn from there.. haha...

hehe...let me repharse my question..

what can we do to help?

are you having a physical problem or you are not mentally prepared?

hhmnmn

physical problem = see doctor for the best advise
not mentally prepared = ppl can't help, you have to face it ler..

if very pain, buy those Moisturizer?

heard from few friends' experience..
1st time was painful cos the "hole" is not "expanded" yet..if you have s** before..
after few times of "expansion", no problem with it..
hehe..not sure how true..;p

many said foreplay is very important before s*x..and, must know each other sensitive "part"..for woman, it may be breast..for man, it may be ear..must know your partner/spouse sensitive "part"..

amendment:-

if you have NOT had s** before..

Pink...
very good explanation there... bravo...

stressgirl

some learnt from books..

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hi skinny girl,

dun get nervous, the effect will become negative.
try to set some romantic feel before u start, play some musics to relax a bit, do some gentle touchings on each other.

as for the guy, ask him not to be so "kan chiong", do it slow. ask him to use condoms with lubricants, it will make it a lot easier! most important thing is dun be nervous.

foreplay is very very important, it helps the girl to be more relax and the hole will be slowly expanding rather than stiff. the guy hv to invest some time to stimulate the girl, dun "kan chiong" wans to insert so fast!

first time is always pain, just dun force yrself. a little bleeding is normal for the first few times. communicate with yr hubby, dun be shy and keep quiet, both of u hv to enjoy together. thats the essence of a long lasting love sex life.

wish u joy and luck.

Go slow-lah...
Use some KY if needed, but then, both partners must be ready. Too fast, pain, so go slow......ZZZZZzzzzzzzzzzz (Maybe sleeping already) Ha ha ha!