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  1. OMG, i ever thought about this too!!!!!!!!!!!! wondering will my house male do so...@.@
  2. jaswwp & fluene, agree with both ur way, treat them as family. also agree to take ELDER maid!!!! yes, most of them have the mind set to get marry! we cant blame them on that as this is the ultimate thinking of an olden days lady! their thinking & attitude still at the olden days. they need a husband and probably they feel inferior if they r single/ unwanted. the end of the day, they still cant think as rational as we do. so we must get a maid with stable family, grown up child back home. they know their objective being here, thus they wont do something out of their mind.
  3. aishiteru, i have to agree it is not easy to get a maid that meet our requirement. however there are things need to be done from our side in order not to headache by maid, as hiring a maid is supposed to assist us & ease our burden but not further burden us! the main criteria of choosing a maid have to be: 1. middle 30's (ideally 35) - they know their objective of working abroad - for $ & better living family back home. wont miang around, no small kid at home & miss them too much (like ur case). 2. experience in the criteria u r searching for: take care of little children, do house hold. 3. and of course there are many more to consider: body weight, height, appearance....(which is not related to ur issue so lets skip this) lets be realistic, if they are so brilliant, they wont come to our country n work as maid, they would have become a manager in a company! :p so, as suggested by tmt, u must write down the daily schedule for her if u find that she is not meeting ur requirement. we cant expect them to know wut to do, and do things in our way. we must tell them our expectation and what we want them to do, i always tell my maid, this is my hotel but this is ur house. the time u spend at home is more than me. so make sure ur house is clean, and when i come home, i want to feel as comfortable as a hotel. i bought books & CD, and told my maid must play the CD and teach my bb, otherwise she will become stupid ler. n of course i will show her to way to teach my bb, then she follow the way. i treat my maid as a family member, she eats wut we eat, i bring her to travel together, i bought cakes for her birthday, i lend her my used hp (save her money, dunit to buy hp), i allow her to watch tv, chat with neighbors...to me, afterall, they are also human being, we need to treat a human like a human, they are not slave, they are here to help us, just put ourselves in their shoes...as wut i told my maid, u r working for me, i am ur boss; i oso working for my boss...we are all working for $$ & better living, lets do wut our boss want, when boss is happy, boss will treat us nice, n we oso happy.
  4. going for biz trip? yaya tarak period at all!
  5. wsyrinrin: wut happen? ur milk drying up? Mei: yeah i am also looking for supplementing now. wut brand would you recon? wut do you think about those goat milk in powder form that are sold in organic shop? Read from website: BF -> no mensus -> no ovulation => chances for pregnancy very low. does it mean i need to stop BF if i plan to conceive?
  6. Dear All, Not sure is this the correct thread to post hence i post in here & TTC...hopefully able to get some advise from the TTC folks here :p i am still BF and no period, can i conceive?
  7. OMG, there is no word to describe the joy & happiness of getting triplets...and the 3 cute & adorable babies!!!! they are stunning!!!!
  8. Jannice, i thought of the valve problem oso...but the suction was ok wor... perhaps i should make a trip to the shop and check it out... Re AA, i will talk to them again la...
  9. Dear Bear & Janicely, My milk production continue being low despite everything has been done, and NO PERIOD!!! i can reaaly feel that my milk is drying up whenever i pump Stress stress stress...i thought i would be able to BF until at least 1 year... what should i do now?? my girl is going to fly airasia in Feb when she turns 7 month, i just check with AirAsia and they only allow 100ml liquid and NO thermos is allowed to bring on board!! i am wondering what can i do now
  10. bearbear: OMG, how to tell that i am getting my period soon?? i did suspect because i can see some discharge at my panties... wsyrin: i dun think its stress because i get normal amount also when i was stress, and i am not under stress now...
  11. Dear All, I have been practicing to BF my bb exclusively for about 5 months and my BM supply drop tremendously since Monday despite makan, tidur, expressing, nite latching and work as usual... Can anyone tell me why and how should i do to boost my BM back to my normal level?? Help please
  12. Dear All, i went for my bb 4th month check up this morning and found out that my bb did not gain in weight & lenght as compared to last month. So i consulted dr, she said it could be the hot water i using to heat up the EMB was too hot & destroy the nutrients... hence please advise whether i am doing the correct thing? normally i will take out the fridged EBM about 30 mins prior to her feeding time, then only heat up the EBM by soaking the milk bottle in the hot water from electrical pot when she wants to drink. is the hot water from electrical pot too hot until can destroy the EBM nutrient???
  13. i'd love to but... neither me nor hubby have -10- in our IC num :( Opsss...too bad...
  14. In fact you can withdraw anytime however i wont do so because these money are meant to be for them...so just save for them lor... i save all her ang pow money given by frens & relatives when she turned 1 month old, after all those moeny are meant for her... and i will save all her wutever ang pow money (CNY, birthday...) there each and everytime she receives any la...
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