This couple made their own elegant card for their wedding to thank guests and explain why they're not serving shark's fin. And yes, you can order their cards (or download them). More information at http://reality-r-us.blogspot.com/2009/06/n...k-fin-card.html Also there're some suggestions for alternative soups on this wedding page http://www.singaporebrides.com/forumboard/...html?1233298653