I wonder why some other MIL are so niece toward their DIL, my MIL so far ok but sometime she also bla bla bla. PIL not staying with us, we keep one room for them. They have my house key and stay near to us, sometimes they will came without notice. MIL have habit that everytime when she came to my house, she will open my fridge, kitchen cabinet, my bedroom to see.. then started comment this la that la... she commented why your thing put like that, you have to put like this, really got one time i can't tahan then i switch the thing as per her comment. Last night i invited them for dinner at my house, damn angry. everyone got their style on cleaning stuff, i have dustbin in kitchen but i used to keep one plastic with newspaper in basin to put all the rubbish like bone, chicken skin then only throw in dustbin to avoid dirty water. MIL saw i keep the plastic bag in basin, started complaint.. "i noticed you few times already, why you like to put the thing in basin to block yourself.. you can throw all in dustbin. you keep the rubbish here who going to clean for you? why you no "shou mei" one? next time you have kid you going to suffer. im not scold you im teaching you" " if i staying with you, i will "qi si" my self" then my HB came in kitchen to cool down his mum.. i knew my MIL have good intention to teach me but still feel sad right? and she always sayang her son, everything goes wrong will come to me ask me why? we have small garden, she will said "why you did't remove the grass? why you did't water the plant, why you didt keep the thing, why you didt throw the thing, why your hair drop everywhere? i think you got sick or your shampoo not suit you." wah lao.. human can drop 100 root of hair per day.. WHY WHY WHY ????? So i can do is just said : yaloh... then smile.. you cant said no time, she will reply you why you so busy? you can arrange your time to complete the tasks.. NOW, I practice to be dont said too much thing, try to keep myself silent. reply with yes and smile..