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  1. yeah, that wud be a tad not too nice, the parents wud feel as if they have disease or something which is surely is not cordial at all. maybe u can have a slow chat with her and see what she feels when u receive guests? and what is the actual reason behind changing the sheets, perhaps afraid that the germs they brought in may harm ur newborn?
  2. LOL i dont blame the wife, the typical scenario after the guests have left, W : Dear, can u help to tidy up? H : Sure, but leave it there 1st, i will clear them after this W : Can u do them now? the house is in a mess! (sounding louder) H : Ok ok, chill babe, i will do it, just give me some time to settle this 1st (settle something or dunno what la...) W : HMMPHH!!!! black charcoal sour prune face comes out n she did everything herself H : Dear, let me do la, y r u doing all by urself??? W : NVM!!!! H : HAR??? (visibly blur) W: SILENT TREATMENT FOR THE WEEK LOLXXX
  3. single is ok ma... the world's not gonna end with her being single. whatever it is, as long as she decides how she wants to live her life, we should respect it. chill, there will be 1 fine day she will realize she will want to be in a long term relationship and she will go out searching for mr rite herself :)
  4. 1. Nope. I put on my poker face and wait till they are gone before we sit down and talk. By putting on a sulking face, I'm just making my spouse look bad ("such a childish wife, not hospitable, etc"). In a marriage, it is no longer about how people see that one person but how they view your spouse as well. There have been instances where I'm super pissed at my hubby (unrelated to the guest visiting issue) and he comes home with a guest. Instead of staying or looking pissed, I just act normal, friendly and all. After the guest is gone, I unleash la...but not in a bad way. :p 2. Urm, not really. It depends - usually I clean the house before they come and tidy it up after they are gone (glasses, etc). I'll save the moping and "heavy" stuff to the next day. The thing is that many forget that most of the time, in-laws come over to spend time with their children and in your case, grandchildren. By being passive aggressive (showing black face and etc), we are telling them to stay away which isn't good for everyone. At least they are staying over for a couple hours - try having your in-laws stay in a 70 sqm apartment with you for two months (24/7) as in my case with the hubs when I was preggers. My parents can be a real pain as well but my HB takes it all in his stride - he is always friendly and cordial even though he's annoyed. When he needs a breather, he goes out - excuse is to throw the trash and etc. He used to complain to me about it and I - like Q's HB - got tired and told him, "What do you want me to do? They are my parents, Eva is their granddaughter and you're my HB. They are like that. You can rant to me when you can't take it but at the end of the day, there is only so much that I can do. Just tahan loh - they'll be gone soon." in all fairness, i think generally men are able to hide their emotions much better than ladies! LOL Kronie, i think what may help is that instead of having ur missus to do the chores once they are gone, why dont u pick up the broom n clean the house to help out? Like it or not, parents, in laws, frens and relatives do overstay their welcome once in awhile so this could perhaps affect her very much needed napping time... Try limiting such visits and taking over more of her chores for the moment and i am pretty sure she will react much differently the next time, good luck :)
  5. always the case, the wife wants more, but the hubby's not into it, the hubby wants more, but the wife's not in the mood. this is getting so so common these days that it is so rare to find couples who are hotly craving for each other! there could be few factors, but luckily for men, the list aint too long 1) try to understand more about his job, are there currently any organisational changes? added responsibilities? pay cuts? lucky for some wives, their hubbies are able to prevent taking work back home but some really has their job screwing their lives upside down and this is the time when they need serious backing and support from their partners 2) is the job an excuse? more often than not, ego plays a big role in this and very rarely does men actually pour out their souls. try finding out whether the job is just a smokescreen. 3) Health issues. bad health habits, lack of exercise and even hormonal inbalance do affect men's desire for sex. you can help for the 1st 2, but it is always good to have regular check ups and see whether he is also ok internally 4) SEDUCE HIM!!! after years of marriage, it may sound pretty cruel, but walking naked in the house may not be something amusing or even entertaining to his eyes anymore! try this, if you have a bathtub back home and ur kids r not around. from the door to the bathtub or ur bedroom, drop pieces of ur clothes, start from blouses and end up with ur bra n panties, u can sprinkle some rose petals as well. In the room or the bathtub, try lighting on some scented candles (freaking make sure it is not some scent that he is alergic with). get urself a new set of lingerie and put them on. remember to put on make up and do up ur hair!!!!!!!! ok, when he reaches home, DO NOT suggest anything about sex to him, instead try giving him a good massage or a good bathrub. start from massaging his head, towards the neck and down the back. if he is giving u a good response (and i am pretty confident he will), then gently proceed (asking his permission) whether u can excite him further. the rest, like what we say, will be history. Wishing u all the best and hope this will spice things up :)
  6. Hor? Why must sit on chair then only can orgasm? On bed cannot meh? My wife also like you, ontop only can orgasm. Thus we always end the action with her ontop unless I havent come yet and I let her relax by doing her from behind. She enjoy it too but not as much as when she's ontop. I think you can achieve it too on bed. Just adjust your position accordingly. Get your husband to cooperate with you. After we get into position, I let her rode a few stroke before stopping her to adjust her position. Usually takes less than 10 seconds to get it right. Sometimes she can achieve orgasm within a minute after we get the right position. Feel so great when her vagina contract. So sad that I cant have it anymore. She doesnt let me have sex anymore cos she's almost 8wks pregnant. Had to DIY myself. Its driving me crazy andre.. i just had sex with my hb but everytime oso when i almost ( very soon but still dono how soon lah) going to organsm then my hb sure will change his position or already ejac.....so everytime i will like almost up to there but suddently stop and left me alone there, i with my hb already 10 years but my organsm just 3 times only...sometime i oso pity myself and my hb oso very lazy in sex , i oso dont y lah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! am not sure if this reply of mine will still reach you... but anyway Hapily, do you actually mention this to ur hubby or have u been suffering in silence all along? the thing is, sometimes many ppl loves to assume things, and there is a very possible chance that ur hubby actually thinks that you have indeed achieved orgasm which is why he stops and continue doing something else! maybe what you can do the next time is that when you are already at 80%, why dont u "instruct" ur hubby to pound u further? it doesnt matter whether he has ejaculated or not but just ask him to continue stimulating u till u get ur orgasm! Good luck and do tell us if it works yeah! :)
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