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  1. Congrat Yivoon.... no worry abt ur gowns. Normally, u won't gain weight till after ur AD. I had many frenz preggy b4 AD and they still look great during the big day...
  2. Hi Twinkles, Like what other said... think positively. I have a friend where she had faced obstacles during her 2 pregnancies. For her 1st bb, the gynae gave her hormone pills to force period come where that time she was already 2 months pregnant. She checked many times with pregnancy test kits but the result was negative. She did not have any pregnancy symptom. After consuming the hormone pills for 21 days, her period still didn't come. She was so frustrated and test again. This time she got a positve result. Luckily, the bb was ok. During her 2nd pregnancy, gynae asked her to get well prepared that she might face miscarriage due to her weak body. She was so sad and cried most of the times. Once, she cried and talked to her bb. She said " Hi bb, mommy knows that mommy will lose u anytime. Mommy really hope that u will stay but if u decided to leave, mommy promise mommy will not get sad." And her 2nd son is now 1 year plus. I do not know whether it really works or just a coincidence. No harm trying but u really have to relax yourself. Good luck to u......
  3. Dear oxford_bb, My hubby also has his own business ( a retail shop) and at the same time, he is working full time and need to travel outstation once a month for 10 to 12 days. I understand how u feel but what is important here is "communication". I need to work during weekdays, at night need to do house chores, then weekends do his business accounts but we do not have problem spending times together. We did a lot of things together, such as go to his shop together, shopping together and sometimes we really need to plan to catch a movie in the cinema. During weekends, he need to be at the shop. Initially, we will have breakfast together, reach shop and I go home. Now, I will stay at the shop with him while doing my work and in the late afternoon, I will go home to prepare dinner and bring to the shop to eat together with him. Frankly speaking, life like that is not easy to go thru. Once a while, I will "pour" everything out in front of him but he knows that I need to release the stress tht I had in me. So, he just listen. After that, life will go on to the same routine. Besides that, I need to take care of my parent in laws as they are staying with me. I really thank to them that they did not give me much problems and my parents side.... they are staying near me. So, I have no prob on travelling home to my parents house. Oxford, pls try to have talk to your hubby as Mabel advise. Best of luck, ya!
  4. Blutulip, Be strong ya! Look forward! Everything happen with reasons and also fated.
  5. I had a friend. She lost her bb at 8 months too. Her gynae dumped her at her 7th months. I'm not sure what was the reason. As what I know her bb was underweight. My MIL also lost her daughter at 8 months. She fell down from stair case and did not rush to hospital immediately. The reasons were there is no pain and they were poor. A week later, she felt pain and delivered a bb girl but passed away a week later. Till now, she still felt heartache when thinking about it.
  6. Whether baby boy or baby girl, I don't really care... as long as he/she is healthy. Hmmm... for the 1st one I prefer girl. It is because she can help me when she grow older. :)
  7. Annjoe, My hb doesn't like to explain things. He will bring me to wherever he goes except meeting clients and boss and provided I'm not free. He told me he wans to bring me along bcos he doesn't wan me to misunderstand him one day when someone telling me they see him with another girl or watsoever. Even I didn't follow him, he will calls me when he reaches the destination and he will tell me in advance who he is meeting with. Frankly speaking, u may think that we dun trust each other but to our point of view, this is how we communicate and maintaining our relationship. I believe some girls here dun allow their hbs go for massage... but I allow. He even tells me in advance or sometimes I calls him and he was massaging, he will tell me that he is massaging. Once the massage girl asked him how come he told me that he was massaging. My hb asked her wat's wrong if I tell my wife... :) We have been married nearly a year. We never fight with each other. Sometimes, when we have something to tell each other and we feel that we will raise our voices, we will write as a note and put at the bed side table. We will communicate with paper and when our anger subside, we will try to talk to each other and solve it. :P
  8. Annjoe, If I were u, I'll do the same to her. For ur example, she will pinpoint on the food that u eat, she asked u to stay away bcos it is not healthy. Then, if u see she eats something which is not healthy, do the same to her. How she treats u, u treat her back. Let her feel how u feel. Do wat u feel is correct. U cannot please everyone in this world as long as u feel happy doing it. Of course dun do something to harm other ppl lah.. :) As for all the superstitious, like others said Happiness & Good Marriage is on ur and hb's hand. U said bcos of he tore the "hi" sticker and u decided not to talk to him. U see, bcos of some tiny little thing affecting ur relationship with ur hb. If one day, both of u really divorce (*touchwood*), who to blame? Blaming ur hb bcos he tore the sticker? NO!!! It should be u! Bcos u choose to treat him badly bcos of a sticker! We will not know wat will happen in future. To prevent anything affecting our marriage in future, we have to do something in present. To maintain a relationship is not easy especially we need to maintain for the rest of our lives. Communication, trust, compromise are very important in a relationship. Ok! I tell u my experience during my preparation of marriage. My MUA is my hb's bestfriend. She liked my hb. Everyone knows even my MIL. During selection of gowns, when I was in the changing room, she tried to stick to my hb and when I came out, she moved away like lightning. But she din aware that my bestfriend was there. She told me everything. Of course I feel uneasy. So, I decided talked to my hb. myself: darling, I know she was sticking to u when I was in the changing room. my hb: We were like that since last time. It's nothing one. myself: but I dun like loh. Last time u were still single but now u have me. I'm ur wife soon. my hb: Dun think nonsense lah. I treat her like my sister. I can guarantee I wun like her. Last time no feeling, now also no feeling. myself: can u guarantee u wun like her in future? For eg: if I were to be like that with one of my guy friend in front of u, how will u feel? darling, I care for u, our family is very important to me. I act like this bcos I dun wan any unecessary thing affecting our relationship. my hb: it is important to me too. myself: tht's y lah. Can u understand wat I'm trying to tell u? (he nobbed) So, in future, I wanna go with u when u go out to meet her. Is it ok? my hb: tht's shldn't be any prob. He really do that. Whenever she calls, he will tell me. And this december we r going to attend her wedding in Terengganu. :)
  9. Icefire, I'm sorry about your experience with GTC. I was one of the GTC bride. I'm satisfied with their service and my wedding photos & albums. B4 I sign up, I told my SA what I was expecting. During PS, my hb and I did communicate with the PG. Even some of the photos, we did our own pose. For your informations, if I'm not mistaken, Jenny is quite new there. She served me b4 during choosing of my AD gowns. My SA was Alice. She helped me a lot. I did post my comments on GTC forum. Go there and take a look.
  10. Yeah Mei... This were their 1st litter. When my hb saved one of the litter's life, the female rabbit bite my hb's hand. We thought since she is protective and care for her litters, so we left them to her. We don't know which area she bites 1st cos the next morning, all of them gone.. only some blood stain on the cloth that we used to cover them. I'm just wondering here whether they were really eaten by them or maybe something happen during the night. <_< Hahaha juvanise... I believe it doesn't happen to me. Even if happen, it will happen for a reason. :)
  11. Ashley, I have attended wedding in Kedah. My friend arranged a heng dai to bring 4 of us as her ji mui to her hometown. At 1st we dun wan to go because we dun wan to drive. Therefore, she arranged someone to bring us there. After the wedding, we gave all the angpao money to the guy as petrol and toll. Frankly speaking, like wat u said, if they really wan to be ur ji mui, they will not calculate so much. If they feel that they dun wan to spend money, they will say no to you. My best friend was the head of the ji mui during my wedding. I gave her another angpao as an appreciation but she rejected. She said our friendships cannot value by money. If I insist of giving her, means we are not best friend. I'm really touched. :)
  12. Gosh! I really dunno that. They are so tame, u know. Never know they will eat their own babies. I feel that they are very cruel. Last night, I checked the internet. It's true. We need to separate both the male, female and the babies. The female will be very sensitive when with their babies. They will need a very peaceful place if she is with her babies. Even a dog barks may lead to her eating their babies because she thinks that they are in danger. Last evening, when I reach home after work, I feel reluctant to feed them cos my mind always think of the 5 little ones. I tried to overcome my feelings and fed them. I realised the female was so thin. B4 that she looked fat.. I think it is because she was pregnant. I started to accept the fact. The lost of 5 babies. I can't imagine what happen if I lost my own baby... *touchwood* *touchwood*.. It will not happen to me!!!!! :P
  13. Thanks for all the replies. I'm still sad! Which means we should separate the male rabbit which we 1st thought to do so but we have no more cage for him. That's why we put them all together. And we didn't clean them up. B4 we go to sleep, I saw the male rabbit cleaning up his body which has blood stain from the female rabbit. OMG!! I cannot imagine they ate them up... All 5 in just 8 hours??? My hb and I thought if they can survive, we will give it away to ppl who really want it as pet. Somemore got 1 baby, my hb need to help him from stucking in the cage. He was so tiny. Hmm... I think I learn from mistake. 1st time, really inexperience. Anyway, really thanks for all the replies and advises. We will try to find out what to do in case the female pregnant and give birth again. As I'm typing now, my tears drop from my eyes. Really affect my mood! :(
  14. My hb and I have 2 rabbits - male & female. When we bought that time, the pet shop boss told us to be careful if the female got pregnant cos if we didn't know about it the babies will die. Last night, at about 10.20pm, I came back from my hb's shop. I thought of giving them some food b4 going to sleep. I saw some blood stain on the male rabbit's body. I shouted and asked my hb to take a look. While I was concentrating on the male rabbit, out of sudden my hb said the female rabbit was giving birth. There was one stuck there and she was still giving birth. My hb quickly took the babies out. After she has finished deliver, we were cracking out head, where to put them. The babies were so fragile and their eyes still haven open. Later, we put a towel in the mooncake box and put inside the cage. It is because we thought they can get milk from the mother. We were so happy and I told my hb to remember these date. Who knows this morning, all the babies gone. 5 babies gone!!!! The parents ate them!!!!!!!! OMG!!! My heart is still in pain now. They were so tiny and fragile and cute too. Just now, my hb told me that his friend said rabbit is like other animals. Once human being touch their new born baby, they will eat them. Is it right? Anyone know about it?
  15. Oh.. what a coincidence! Which year u grad? I left school in 1994 (after Form 5). Hahaha... I'm older than u. Grad in 1991 (after Form 5).
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