Hi, Panadol, Your situation is tough. I really Salute you can able to compromise all the requirements laid down by her parents. I think your gf is not mature in the whole situation. If she knows you have paid so much and sacrifice so many for her, and she doesn't have to pay any cents at all, Why does she still not being satisfy? sorry for your situation. Anywhere, most importantly, you must able to consider all your relationship with your fiance, and their family. Would it still have any problem after married? Do both of you able to have a good life (such as able to assist each other, even if financially, or emotionally). I do not worry on your situation on the wedding expenses part, but my concern Is you both's life after the wedding? :)