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  1. Nicole80, I have PM you the contact number of the CL. I don wish to publish her contact number here as I don mean to backstab her. I just wish to express my depression and to let other knows that if they face this kind of CL, don hesitate to fire them. As I also spent 1 nite discussing with my hubby whether to fire her because scare the new CL also may be the same. My hubby keep analyse the situation for me saying that it could be because we don hv maid, or we pay not enough for her as she get Sing2K from last client. But if she want more money, then she shall either to do Sing client only or ask for more in the first place. Not giving this kind of service. The price I pay her is what she ask for, I din pay less for her. After I read back wat I have posted above, I have more confident that my decision is right because this CL is too OVER. Somemore her attitude is very bad as well, don listen to instruction. She likes that she will do, if not, just ignore totally. I just really hope that my CL coming tmr will be a good 1. This is my 2nd child, so I know what a CL shall do for the basic. Somemore my sis & bro also got baby before. When I call up to other CL to tell them abt my situation, they all also said this CL is not responsible, not doing what suppose to be. Is like I pay money but still I need to do myself. Another thing I also not happy is, suppose my NDD is mid Nov which I told her in early of the year, she should have reserve this 28 days for me rite. No, she din, because she booked her vacation at end of Nov, which mean she dun even bother about my booking! Then before I pay her deposit, she did mention there is another client contact her for early Nov but not yet pay, and she promise said that she will do for me if I paid before that client. Then during 1 conversation she ownself told me that, she told the other client, she will do who if who deliver first! What kind of CL is that. What she told me during booking is totally bullsh*t. But I also cannot say she is 100% bad, because she still do the basic job like take care baby during midnight and cook my meal. Just that, she is: 1) Not hygiene - baby cloth wet dun1 change - Pee already say "It will dry" 2) Not caring - use cold water from tap to wipe baby face - force my baby to drink 3 oz bbmilk at 1 time (my baby is only 7 days old) because she dun1 pour the milk into 2 separate bottle, so only need to wash 1 bottle. - expect me walk down to hv meal else she no need cook tot I dun1 eat - say can do exercise (this is still my first week of CL) - ask me bring the bath tong downstair myself after wipe body - ask me go downstairs to drink soup for supper myself. - only think of eat eat eat every time. She really have 5 meals a day for herself. Not me. She never ask if I want teatime or supper. 3) Not responsible - feed baby with the eyes looking at tv instead of baby. 4) Bad attitude - don listen to my MIL say - don admit mistake, she lost my MIL herbal medicine that my MIL pass to her personally, somemore say never touch the thing and dono where is it. Somemore say "how? I vomit out for you?" I so pity myself after reading thru my own post, what a bad luck I have to have this CL. :(
  2. I have engaged a CL who just came for 3 days and create nightmare for me. 1) Never offer to bring meal upstairs for me but instead keep asking me go downstairs to eat. My MIL did ask her once to bring up dinner for me, after MIL left, she yell from downstairs ask me go down to eat (again)totally ignore what my MIL said. That is during first week of my confinement (She came 5 days later after I delivered because she wanted to attend a 3 days buffer organized by previous client at singapore) 2) 2nd day, I have late breakfast, then until 1.45pm I ask her if lunch is ready? she said she haven't cooked, becos I don't go downstairs yet! 3) After I express milk, she never come to collect the milk from me. When I bring the milk downstairs, saw her sitting there watching tv, never even turn her head to look at me or offer to take over the milk. End up I put the milk to fridge and put the pump to basin myself. 4) Once I sitting at living room alone with no fan turn on, she came out from her room (after taking afternoon nap!), then turn on the fan, where i was sitting down below the fan! (this is first time). At nite, when I had dinner with hubby, and turn on Low fan, she again came out from bedroom, and first thing she turn the fan to HIGH power at the dinner table. I was still eating my dinner below the fan. She said she is very hot becos all the doors and windows are close. Then I replied her said I cannot get wind, then she said she knows, but the high power fan is still on, just becos she also want to sit at dining table to have her dinner already. 5) After my baby vomit some milk on his shirt, she told me, little bit wet only no need changed (she realised it before she start her dinner but didn't change the cloth becos she gan cheong to eat). The wet portion is about 50cent large. Then I go change the baby cloth myself, and diaper together becos baby poo poo already. Then, my baby suddenly pee before I get to put diaper on him. Baby pee on the napkin and a cloth I use to cover the bedsheet. I saw both are wet, but the CL said the cloth underneath is not wet no need change. Then I said it's wet! She again said "NVM, IT WILL DRY!" OMG. I said cannot it smell stings. then only she reluctantly tk both to wash. 6) From first day, she already told me her previous client give her XXX sing dollar ang pao. She said she never get so much before. So money face. 7) She thinks she is very experience and refuse to listen to ppl or instruction. And like to demand this and that. She keep on ask my MIL to buy her things to eat for breakfast & tea time, and even specify that she don't eat bread, only eat cake with no cream. When my MIL brought back the kuih, she is first to eat herself and don even bother to offer to bring up for me to eat. I never had any tea time from her because I din demand and she never ask if I need one also. Though I don feel to eat. 8 ) Once, she again busy eating the kuih, sit beside me, watch me feed my baby myself like big boss. never offer to help. somemore say why I din burp the baby. this should her job, but she is not doing because she is so busy eating at that time... With all these, I have no reason to keep her anymore. I believe no1 else will. She even dare to tell me no1 complaint her before. I am not paying her low. standard RM3k + RM200 ang pao which she demanded. I never ask for discount, yet she give this kind of service. Conclusion, she is very lazy and money face. I have changed her now and hopefully my 2nd CL will be better. It should be, as I think will not have anyone worse than her. BTW, her name is call "lan che" 016-9xxxxxx
  3. Hi babysiew, can share your photo with me? pls email to jelijenny@yahoo.com
  4. Hi June, my email: jelijenny@yahoo.com jenny
  5. Hi June, Can show me your photos? Who is your photographer? I have just signup with Universal studio today.. they hv a fair in pyramid this two days. How come my package does not hv slide? :( n with only 1 10R photo with frame oso.. jenny
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