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  1. Jts- I do not recommend Aunty Winnie Tan Poh Choo as your confinement lady. She was my CL and she is 60 year old, staying in KL area. Her contact no is 0162211686. I find that she is lacking of knowledge in breastfeeding , taking care of baby and preparing confinement food. Her logics normally were baseless, uneducated, eg she said that visitor can't carry baby otherwise the baby can't sleep well etc. She didn't support breastfeeding though she claimed that she is. She was slow in performing her works, eg cooking. Spent long time in cooking and less time in taking care of baby. Strang thing was the food she prepared were normally tasteless and only 2 dishes for one meal. She didn't have experience in using warmer, cleaning the bottles and even not aware that the bottles need to be air dried. During my first few days of confinement period, she even wanted to dilute my bm to feed baby. She didn't manage to make my newborn sleep too and sometimes she just ignored the baby when the baby cried and purposely left the baby in the crib. I suspect she just a normal aunty but gained her confinement knowledge by working a few years only. But she charged quite high for her limited services. Worst thing is she is very talkative, unprofessional (always crying , talking bad about others and her past confinement services , gossiping about my family background, friends who came and visited me, complaining about people including myself , my family , my maid and even my baby during the confinement service). She is a very negative person and money minded person. You can imagine she always take short cut in doing things and unwilling to carry out duties that we have agreed upfront. She liked to throw tantrum also for trivial matters and behaved like 'I'm always right and you guys are always doing wrong things and you guys must listen to me ' in the house. Before I discharged from hospital, she even wanted to stay in my house the day before. (Sounds weird right) It turned out that my confinement month became a stressful month and I nearly got post natal depression because of her negative attitudes and services. She normally using we chat to communicate with people. Folks please be aware of this confinement lady.
  2. My best recommeded for every women or mothers to be to keep this wine! Any mommies or anyone here looking for 100% Pure Original Moa Kai Chow with Moa Kai (Moa Kai chick with it leaf also) & most refined high gred selective herbs inside each jar? At least pour out 880ml per-jar! Moa Kai Chow is a traditions Chinesse wine use specially for Confinement or Old Folks usage with problem or long term continuesly illiness of ~~~~energize, anemia, wind, headache, backache, numb, arthritis or boneache. Moa Kai Wine could be inheritance from mothers to daughters treasure! IMPORTANT is must always keep dry airtight and it could be keep as long as 100 years old! This wine actually is traditionally generated made from family to generations. There's only a few jars exclusively to be produce in every 5 years or 10 years because Moa Kai chick are extremely rarely to be found nowadays. There's no promises any available wine at all time but please try message or WeChat me @ bbyenna08
  3. Dear all. I wanted to share this information with everyone in the Forum about a very bad Confinement Lady (CL) name Chin Swee Chin I/C No: 530116-10-5970 also known as Zhen Jie. She is in her 60+ and with a short and white curly hair. She was introduced to me by Kuan Jie (019-2492993). I think everyone here heard about Kuan Jie. Initially I wanted Kuan Jie but her daughter is having her confinement too then she introduced this Zhen Jie to me. After interviewed her, I think she is ok then I paid her RM500 for the deposit. I delivered my baby boy on the 8/5/2014 and in fact I'm having my confinement now with this Zhen Jie. She is being fired and will be gone by Friday 23/5/2014. This is my second baby and I knew what to do this time. My baby was infected with pneumonia after birth and we need to stay in hospital for 5 days. Because of that I called Zhen Jie and told her just to come to my house in the afternoon to cook then she can go home and I'll top up the money for the 5 days during my stay in the hospital. So that my hubby can bring the food for me in the hospital. She told me don't need to paid her extra money for the 5 days and she will help me for that 5 days, but she need advance payment for RM1,500 first. I agreed and paid her RM1,500 in advance + the deposit paid during interview time. She had taken Rm2,000 from me. When I go home for confinement I found out that she is not competent at all and very rude to me, my hubby and my mother in law. Because of the advance money taken by her unfortunately I have to suffered until 23/5/2014 then only dismissed her. She is very lazy, one night she wake up and help me with baby she actually scolded me because she not enough sleep. After that night, I told her to sleep at night then only help me in the morning, so that I can take a nap in the morning. She agreed, she slept at 9.30pm and I told her to wake up early at 5,00am to boiled the bath water for me & baby and prepared breakfast. Since she slept through the night from 9.30pm till 5.00am in the morning should be enough. when I wake her up in the morning, she actually scolded me again and called me crazy women etc... I was affected so much I refused to stay alone with her while no one home. Luckily, my aunt & sister come over to visit often. Besides that when I found out she is not competent, I called Kuan Jie and complaint about her. She actually called Kuan Jie and told her that she need to take care of my elder son who is 6 years old. In fact, my mother in law is the one who taking care of my elder son and stay with her next door condo unit. I just asked her to prepared a little bit extra and don't put so much of ginger so that my son can eat his lunch at home before going to school in the afternoon. beside being rude and she tells liars and blaming me for all the wrong. I'm having my confinement and I didn't manage to sleep & she make me so stress up... I asked her to cook a bit extra so that my hubby can eat dinner and home after he finished work. She refused and my mother in laws was so worry that she only made her own sandwiches to eat. My hubby also not eating and home because of this. I really hope that she go on Friday and I can have a peace of mind. There are a lot more details I will posted later in the Forum. At the moment, I just want to warn everyone who have booked her or might come across her. Please took back your deposit and never ever hire her.
  4. Hi all, I'll be due in early November 2013 and until now still can't find a confinement lady. Called many but they are all fully booked in November....so fast! Anyone has good experience with a confinement lady that can share? Really appreciate it because I heard many horror stories and would really put me at ease if someone tried out the confinement lady before and loved her... This is my first baby....really very blur don't know anything....would appreciate all the help and advice I can get... So if anyone has any good confinement lady contacts can kindly share with me? I'm also looking for a good Filipino maid too... My email is sharonmaylee84@gmail.com Thanks so much in advance!
  5. Beware of this confinement Aunty Ah Yoke 016 3328882 from Kepong Last year, ard May, I paid this lady RM1000 deposit for her service during CNY 2012. She charges me RM5400 as she said, my confinement period is during CNY period, and requested for a BIG ANGPOW and I agreed. Then 2 weeks before my due date, in Jan 2012, I called her again to remind her of my due date. I called her few times and she didn’t answer, and I started to get worried. But finally she picked up the called and told me she is in Australia and cannot come back. Imagine how worried I was – I might be delivering anytime, and yet, she didn’t bother to inform me, that she will be working in Australia and wont be working for me !!!! Nevertheless, I wasn’t angry at her, as I know what is the point. I asked her nicely, how about me now….as I am due anytime. She said, she would recommend her friend to me, and I took the friend’s number and called. Her friend then told me, she was informed by this Auntie Ah Yoke, I would pay her RM5800. So I was surprised, and I told her, Aunty Ah Yoke only charge me RM5400 and I’ve paid RM1000 deposit, so I would only need to pay RM4400. She disagreed. So I called Aunty Ah Yoke in Australia again – she angrily scolded me (though I didn’t know what’s the reason) – WHO THE HELL WANT TO WORK FOR YOU, IF YOU DON’T PAY RM6800 DURING CNY….YOU PAID RM1000 DEPOSIT, SO NOW, RM5800 TO BE PAID TO THE NEW AUNTIE!! I felt like I was being conned!!! So I went around like headless chicken to fine other confinement aunties contact and I managed to engage one, last minute, from my friend’s contact. I think I called at least 30 confinement aunties that time, to secured 1. Since I didn’t engage the service of Auntie Ah Yoke’s friend, I called he again, to tell her that how is she going to pay me back that RM1000 deposit. She said she would pay me back when she is back to Malaysia, which would be around March. So I agreed and didn’t chase her for that. Then come end of March, I called her again, and she didn’t want to pick up when she saw my h/p #. Then I used my house number, and she picked up. Again, she got angry and told me, she wont pay me back, as she was helping me to look for new replacement and she was acting as an agent and that’s her agent fee. Halo!!!! What logic is this….!! Then I reminded her again, I didn’t use her friend’s service., and she finally angrily, told me not to chase her again, as she would pay me back in 2 installment. I’ve been waiting and waiting and checking my bank a/c, now it’s May, I don’t see any sign, and she refused to answer my phone calls. I’ve now decided, to broadcast her in forum, so that other mothers will not fall into the same trap as me. I think she has no intention to refund me my money in the first place, she is just buying time….Basically collecting deposits and “fly aeroplane” last minute. As I only have her contact number, no other details, I could do anything to her. But at least, I hope other ppl are aware of this lady and do not engage her services.
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