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How often does ladies achieve orgasm during sex with your partner?

How often does ladies achieve orgasm during sex with your partner?  

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just a tip....

make sure you provide her some oral/hand first before you engage in intercouse...

in that way, even though if( big IF) you have premature ejaculation, at least she had her orgasm right..if, she will be happy enough to achieve her 2nd time, dont u think?

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well the female organsm is like the "flying" feeling. but for ladies very hard to achieve this,must be very concentrate,and for me the husband must be talking nice to me on that day :) or must holding hands or hug each other..ha..as we seldom have chance cause we have 1 boy..

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I only can orgasm when my hubby sitting on the chair and I am on top. else, I cant. But, he told me its hurt when we doing this position. And after he told me this, I never orgasm anymore. I tried all diff position and it seem doesnt work to me. I never told him that I only can orgasm through this position as I dont want to hurt him just to pleasure myself.

Any suggestion?

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I only can orgasm when my hubby sitting on the chair and I am on top. else, I cant. But, he told me its hurt when we doing this position. And after he told me this, I never orgasm anymore. I tried all diff position and it seem doesnt work to me. I never told him that I only can orgasm through this position as I dont want to hurt him just to pleasure myself.

Any suggestion?

Hi Kiwi, I know how you feel my friend..I was once in your shoe as well, but after much exploring, finally found this one: Lying with face on the bed and your back facing upward (as you are in massage center), and have your HB come from the back and on top of you, while you are playing yourself also. No harm to try....good luck! :bye:

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I only can orgasm when my hubby sitting on the chair and I am on top. else, I cant. But, he told me its hurt when we doing this position. And after he told me this, I never orgasm anymore. I tried all diff position and it seem doesnt work to me. I never told him that I only can orgasm through this position as I dont want to hurt him just to pleasure myself.

Any suggestion?

Hi Kiwi, I know how you feel my friend..I was once in your shoe as well, but after much exploring, finally found this one: Lying with face on the bed and your back facing upward (as you are in massage center), and have your HB come from the back and on top of you, while you are playing yourself also. No harm to try....good luck! :bye:

No offence to anyone,but speaking from a man's point of view,i think its better to just talk to ur bf/hubby.

Most men genuinely want to satisfy their women,and they're just as frustrated as you are when you can't reach orgasm.

Just tell him what is pleasurable,teach him how to use his fingers and tongue...every woman is different,i think with some guidance from you,everything will be better.

In fact, there's something to be said for watching porn :lol:

Men who watch porn often try harder to do things which women find pleasurable... haha

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I only can orgasm when my hubby sitting on the chair and I am on top. else, I cant. But, he told me its hurt when we doing this position. And after he told me this, I never orgasm anymore. I tried all diff position and it seem doesnt work to me. I never told him that I only can orgasm through this position as I dont want to hurt him just to pleasure myself.

Any suggestion?

Hor? Why must sit on chair then only can orgasm? On bed cannot meh?

My wife also like you, ontop only can orgasm. Thus we always end the action with her ontop unless I havent come yet and I let her relax by doing her from behind. She enjoy it too but not as much as when she's ontop. I think you can achieve it too on bed. Just adjust your position accordingly. Get your husband to cooperate with you. After we get into position, I let her rode a few stroke before stopping her to adjust her position. Usually takes less than 10 seconds to get it right. Sometimes she can achieve orgasm within a minute after we get the right position. Feel so great when her vagina contract. So sad that I cant have it anymore. She doesnt let me have sex anymore cos she's almost 8wks pregnant. Had to DIY myself. Its driving me crazy :dash2:

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Lol, the results totally contrasts to the usual polls held by organisations and such.

Maybe visiting MB helps alot?

:tongue:

My guess is that newer generation like to explore more about sex. However if you spread the interview/polls evenly for all ages, you will likely find it more toward 50% or even less. Not to mention much, as we start to have kids and older, I think orgasm would be a thing of past.

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if ppl voted that they have orgasm all the time, what is there so hard to not to believe? so r u saying we MB members are a lying bunch of ppl about their orgasm???

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:lol:

String, it just means that 1) we have great lovers, or 2) we know our bodies (and thus know how to instruct our partners on how to please us).

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if ppl voted that they have orgasm all the time, what is there so hard to not to believe? so r u saying we MB members are a lying bunch of ppl about their orgasm???

Wow, why so heated up???

I was just comparing this to a whole lot surveys out there and it just doesn't match. And in forums like this (i'm a member of quite a few forums, the polls are almost never accurate due to a lot of trollers or lurkers voting for fun and messing with the polls).

All I'm saying is that statistically it shouldn't be this way...

Its like you have a poll and suddenly 30% say that they are active drug abusers when statistically less than 0.1% is...would you believe it? The odds of achieving that kind of result is astronomical.

AND reading from the many posts here (the whole Intimacy section), so many girls here question about orgasms, and saying that they don't usually climax etc, yet 30% say they achieve it every single time? Doesn't add up.

Babysiew, relax girl. I'm just being logical.

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All these depends on each individuals and our body are so different from each others! One might be able to have big O every time when they have fun, but others may not....That's why all the external stimulation comes into play in our daily life.

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do i sound heated up? relax, string...

Cuz of the triple question marks haha. It's hard to judge a sentence in online forums. Cheers.

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Well, total vote is 109 ppl... 30% have orgasm all the time... means around 30 ppl who have voted... I dont see why not... I have orgasm everytime with my hubby... and its not only once... I experience multiple orgasm... even in my pregnancy... from beginning till now when I am about to deliver... so 29 more ppl to go... whats so hard to believe wor?

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Dont take it too seriously. I agreed with what you point out there.

Yes, I also think its impossible to have orgasm each and everytime you had sex except for guys. First timer gurls dont get to taste orgasm unless her first time partnet has experience. So if these 30% achieve orgasm all these time, then these gurls partner are all very experienced guys and none of them are virgin. OR many of those votes belong to guys.

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I think a number of guys voted haha. They didn't read the topic properly, i nulled my vote btw. But seriously if 30% of the girls here achieve orgasm everytime, I really think its great. :)

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