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How often does ladies achieve orgasm during sex with your partner?

How often does ladies achieve orgasm during sex with your partner?  

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Hi gal289,

after marriage life, you still can't get O with ur hubby?

May be you can try use vibrator during ur ml with hubby....

Erm... if I put it in one hole then how HB ML with me? :mellow:

sori..gal289

wat i mean is u can use the small vibrator to stimulate ur clitor area while ur hb penetrating in yours..so at least u can feel twice excitement there if possible...right? :lol:

Do you like finger come into you? if ok, may ask u HB to try and see u can feel any different or not..

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Sigh... actually I've more or less tried the methods that you've suggested. It gets me really high but not enough to go over the edge.

I wonder if this is an psychological issue? :unsure:

Nvm...jia you jia you!!! I know I can do it but doing it once a week seems too few for practice. Hehe...

HB said once: wah every day want, you want to cripple me issit? :blink:

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wont be psychological issue la...just that the technique is not right only....

even sometime i aso not feel high enuff becoz it was not stimulate at correct area..

Ha ha...tell ur HB...if dun wan do it everyday now, when is old...no 'energy' to do it anymore....

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aisumomo,

you seem like those type favour using toys to stimulates your enjoyment during ml...

Your hubby ok with that?

You will use toys aso during ur ml to spice up?

lol minshome toys can nvr replace real thing but it can enhance the experience together.

its during ml so obviously he plays a part in it too hahah

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lol minshome toys can nvr replace real thing but it can enhance the experience together.

its during ml so obviously he plays a part in it too hahah

I agree... its a supplement not a replacement :happy:

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Last night I tried the Play-O again, and to confirm what I've said earlier, short fuse no multiples.

I felt something which matches your description of what a V-orgasm should feel like, but the intensity is still much much lower than the C-orgasm.

I've got one vibrator but I primarily use it for the little knob..... Did use it on the orifice, but not much feel ler~

Hmm.. am I doing something wrong?

I tried to 2 different gals, both get more than twice 0, I put it 10 min b4 ml. getting wet too much after.

but now one of the gal don't like it bcoz she said its too cold, too tired and she like ori and natural.

as per moderator said u must do it on relax mode, slow and steady maa..

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Wow I'm surprised by the vote results. Didn't know that 26% achieved it every time. Looks like everyone has been getting adequate sex education nowadays with Internet.

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Wow I'm surprised by the vote results. Didn't know that 26% achieved it every time. Looks like everyone has been getting adequate sex education nowadays with Internet.

Hey hun... these things are not taught in any manuals or courses.

Would like to attend one on tantric sex (like the one in the series Sex & the City) tho...

Even tho hubby tried the "monkey see, monkey do" with porn... it doesnt always work... so where is the source of the 'education' part?

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I think communication is important. The ability of a female to achieve orgasm depends on her mental state as much as the physical arousal. If she's in the mood, then the male partner needs to apply the right pressure and speed on the right location.

Wow I'm surprised by the vote results. Didn't know that 26% achieved it every time. Looks like everyone has been getting adequate sex education nowadays with Internet.

Hey hun... these things are not taught in any manuals or courses.

Would like to attend one on tantric sex (like the one in the series Sex & the City) tho...

Even tho hubby tried the "monkey see, monkey do" with porn... it doesnt always work... so where is the source of the 'education' part?

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I only can orgasm when my hubby sitting on the chair and I am on top. else, I cant. But, he told me its hurt when we doing this position. And after he told me this, I never orgasm anymore. I tried all diff position and it seem doesnt work to me. I never told him that I only can orgasm through this position as I dont want to hurt him just to pleasure myself.

Any suggestion?

Hor? Why must sit on chair then only can orgasm? On bed cannot meh?

My wife also like you, ontop only can orgasm. Thus we always end the action with her ontop unless I havent come yet and I let her relax by doing her from behind. She enjoy it too but not as much as when she's ontop. I think you can achieve it too on bed. Just adjust your position accordingly. Get your husband to cooperate with you. After we get into position, I let her rode a few stroke before stopping her to adjust her position. Usually takes less than 10 seconds to get it right. Sometimes she can achieve orgasm within a minute after we get the right position. Feel so great when her vagina contract. So sad that I cant have it anymore. She doesnt let me have sex anymore cos she's almost 8wks pregnant. Had to DIY myself. Its driving me crazy :dash2:

andre..

i just had sex with my hb but everytime oso when i almost ( very soon but still dono how soon lah) going to organsm then my hb sure will change his position or already ejac.....so everytime i will like almost up to there but suddently stop and left me alone there, i with my hb already 10 years but my organsm just 3 times only...sometime i oso pity myself and my hb oso very lazy in sex , i oso dont y lah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Through the clitoris or penetration?

happily,

i think i face the same prob with u. however, i able to reach big O by myself.

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I only can orgasm when my hubby sitting on the chair and I am on top. else, I cant. But, he told me its hurt when we doing this position. And after he told me this, I never orgasm anymore. I tried all diff position and it seem doesnt work to me. I never told him that I only can orgasm through this position as I dont want to hurt him just to pleasure myself.

Any suggestion?

Hor? Why must sit on chair then only can orgasm? On bed cannot meh?

My wife also like you, ontop only can orgasm. Thus we always end the action with her ontop unless I havent come yet and I let her relax by doing her from behind. She enjoy it too but not as much as when she's ontop. I think you can achieve it too on bed. Just adjust your position accordingly. Get your husband to cooperate with you. After we get into position, I let her rode a few stroke before stopping her to adjust her position. Usually takes less than 10 seconds to get it right. Sometimes she can achieve orgasm within a minute after we get the right position. Feel so great when her vagina contract. So sad that I cant have it anymore. She doesnt let me have sex anymore cos she's almost 8wks pregnant. Had to DIY myself. Its driving me crazy :dash2:

andre..

i just had sex with my hb but everytime oso when i almost ( very soon but still dono how soon lah) going to organsm then my hb sure will change his position or already ejac.....so everytime i will like almost up to there but suddently stop and left me alone there, i with my hb already 10 years but my organsm just 3 times only...sometime i oso pity myself and my hb oso very lazy in sex , i oso dont y lah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

am not sure if this reply of mine will still reach you... but anyway Hapily, do you actually mention this to ur hubby or have u been suffering in silence all along? the thing is, sometimes many ppl loves to assume things, and there is a very possible chance that ur hubby actually thinks that you have indeed achieved orgasm which is why he stops and continue doing something else! maybe what you can do the next time is that when you are already at 80%, why dont u "instruct" ur hubby to pound u further? it doesnt matter whether he has ejaculated or not but just ask him to continue stimulating u till u get ur orgasm! Good luck and do tell us if it works yeah! :)

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laydown facing him n slip a pillow or 2 ( depends) at ur bottom. still not enough the use the same method n ask him strech ur leg as u wish...

hope this will help ur taste ur hero :)

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Ok this thread been like deactivated and i may sound stupid to ask... How does women to achieve it?? Me like when I feel like "flying" I feel kinda good feeling.... After we have sex, sometime I will like discharge those vignal jelly but not urinating it.. is this the organism??

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