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How often does ladies achieve orgasm during sex with your partner?

How often does ladies achieve orgasm during sex with your partner?  

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I'm in the same boat with BBsiew although my first time was sucky per se, the subsequent times with my ex, vaginal intercourse was good (although HB is better la - :lol: ). With HB, it's multiple Os all the time... Maybe we are the oddballs. XD

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Well, total vote is 109 ppl... 30% have orgasm all the time... means around 30 ppl who have voted... I dont see why not... I have orgasm everytime with my hubby... and its not only once... I experience multiple orgasm... even in my pregnancy... from beginning till now when I am about to deliver... so 29 more ppl to go... whats so hard to believe wor?

I so admired you oh...every time also archived the big "O" :wub: Any secret formula care to share ah?? :wink:

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Well, total vote is 109 ppl... 30% have orgasm all the time... means around 30 ppl who have voted... I dont see why not... I have orgasm everytime with my hubby... and its not only once... I experience multiple orgasm... even in my pregnancy... from beginning till now when I am about to deliver... so 29 more ppl to go... whats so hard to believe wor?

I so admired you oh...every time also archived the big "O" :wub: Any secret formula care to share ah?? :wink:

I think you lack communication with your HB lor. I can feel it when my wife about to come. When Im energetic, I give her less oral and more sex. But when Im slightly tired, I give her somemore oral plus adequate sex to make sure she orgasm as well. Even though you might feel that you will hurt his feeling if you tell him the truth, its best for you lor. After all, even though love is above sex, sexual satisfaction still matters. Thats one of the reason why attached/married woman willing to have an affair (not saying you, just an example).

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Seriously speaking my wife tends to tell me to stop when she is about to reach the big O... sigh... most of the time, i can make her come orally... so far i have yet to make her come while penetrating her...

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Seriously speaking my wife tends to tell me to stop when she is about to reach the big O... sigh... most of the time, i can make her come orally... so far i have yet to make her come while penetrating her...

This is what I am trying to say earlier on..archived big "O" just by pumping and not orally...Kind of difficult to archived....

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Seriously speaking my wife tends to tell me to stop when she is about to reach the big O... sigh... most of the time, i can make her come orally... so far i have yet to make her come while penetrating her...

This is what I am trying to say earlier on..archived big "O" just by pumping and not orally...Kind of difficult to archived....

Hold on a sec. Did you mean achieving orgasm by intercourse without any oral or finishing it by intercourse after oral?

Was it really that difficult? Although it did takes us about 3months or so to find the perfect spot for her (from where we started to have sex), it wasnt that difficult. Even most online guide saying that women on top is the best way to achieve orgasm for most women and that proved right for my wife as well. Sometimes you dont need to be flashy. You just need a position that worked for both of you. I can honestly tell you that in the position that my wife achieve orgasm, the stimulation for me is really not much. Thats why sometimes when she achieve orgasm, I still havent come yet. And I will finish it off with doggy style as this is the one where Im not really good at because it is really very syok for me and usually come within 2-3mins in this position unless I kept my mind busy thinking something unrelevant to sex.

I really suggest that you tried test drive with your wife. What I mean by that is penetrate her at different position like doggy or women on top, and keep adjusting the position while asking for her response. I also tried that with my wife quite a lot of times before I actually find few spots where she really feel goods.

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I think it's not just a matter of communication but also a question of whether you understand one very important thing - EACH woman is different. Her body and how she responds in bed is uniquely her own experience. Whatever works for others may not work for you so it's important that you learn, understand and accept how your body is built and how to obtain sexual pleasure that is uniquely your own experience.

Some women find it easier to achieve clitoral orgasm because that is just how they are built. Maybe their G-spots are deeper and such or the angle of penetration is off. Others have an easier time achieving vaginal orgasms due to the position of their G-spot or its sensitivity. Some women reach orgasms better and easily when they DIY compared to when their partners do the job.

As a couple, part of the fun in having sex is learning about your body and what pleases your partner.

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Hmm... seriously we have tried quite a number of positions but the simulation to the clitoral area is the easiest way for her to achieve the O. As for the G-Spot... we have been searching for it for so long... seems like hers is hidden so well until now still cant find it. She like it when we do doggy but then again like Andre said... going doggy means I will achieve O faster than a speeding bullet...

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Hmm... seriously we have tried quite a number of positions but the simulation to the clitoral area is the easiest way for her to achieve the O. As for the G-Spot... we have been searching for it for so long... seems like hers is hidden so well until now still cant find it. She like it when we do doggy but then again like Andre said... going doggy means I will achieve O faster than a speeding bullet...

Ooo... so Im not the only one hor? Hahaha...

I like doggy because it feels so good for me. For my wife, yeah she likes it too but she prefer her favorite women-on-top cos that makes her cum. Even though sometimes I couldnt come in that position, I like it as well as when and after she cum, her vagina is tight like a virgin. Anyway, I suggest you try women-on-top again la. Make her as close to her orgasm with clitoral stimulation and then let her ride you while keep asking her how does she feels. Women-on-top is the easiest way to make your woman cum. Let her ride you while you just lay there. At the same time, give her breast stimulation. Also when she start to feel good like moaning louder, then grap her buttock and coordinate with her movement and pull her deeper into you. Im sure she will get the big O. Remember to adjust her position so that your penis is fully and deeply inserted into her.

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Aiya, you guys are not the only one la. My HB oso sama. It's the angle plus visual stimulation. :smile:

If I remember correctly, your hb is guai lou rite? Does the extra length he has make it more pleasurable for you? My apologies if my question is being too sensitive.

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Hmmm, there are countless studies that show that size doesn't matter lol. Because if i'm not mistaken (from what I've read), a woman is only really sensitive till about 7cm inside. But again of course it might differ from individual to individual.

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Aiya, you guys are not the only one la. My HB oso sama. It's the angle plus visual stimulation. :smile:

If I remember correctly, your hb is guai lou rite? Does the extra length he has make it more pleasurable for you? My apologies if my question is being too sensitive.

Size doesn't come into play when ML with your love one...it's the technic and experienced does matter! :wub:

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Andre, while it is true that studies show that men from different ethnic groups and race have different sizes penis, this is a study based on AVERAGES. Not every angmoh is built like a horse (like what you see in porn movies) and not every Chinese (supposedly the ones with the smallest size penis) have little wee wees. ^^

So no, this has nothing to do with size (although any less than 5" and it'll slip out during cowgirl or doggy). :smile:

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Women sitting on an L shape men can easily achieve orgasms due to the contact of the G Spot. Most women have their G Spot about 7-9cm above the vagina and 1/2 inch behind the cervix. I think thats why riding is the best position for orgasms. Correct me if im wrong :lol: Works 10/10 for my wife

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Women sitting on an L shape men can easily achieve orgasms due to the contact of the G Spot. Most women have their G Spot about 7-9cm above the vagina and 1/2 inch behind the cervix. I think thats why riding is the best position for orgasms. Correct me if im wrong :lol: Works 10/10 for my wife

Then you are one hell lucky dude then...bet your wife scream and fly high every time when you all have "fun" then ..... :cool:

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For me doggy style is nicer..coz easier penetration..Plus can clit stimulation..

But hb say kaki beh tahan..so mayb laying down ( like massage) is better?

I read to find the G..lady lie facing upward, man palm up.

insert 1-2 fingers inside, reach upwards..might be able to feel the spot..

something like bean..

I love when hb bj me..but when they say big "O"..i feel i shake and shake..legs lost control..

Is that "O"? or "O" has other meaning?

Oh ya, i tried being cowgirl..fun..but thighs' tired..mayb i'm a couch potato.

Hb like that too..coz i move, he enjoy mah.

69 is fun too~~

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i think most gals like doggie style....my wife love it and even i enjoy it too...

69 style also one of our favourite...

nvr able to find the G even i put my finger in...must explore it ...

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Have to googled up the kamasutra things..

last time i accidentally found a member sharing the link..now lost it again..many positions

to explore ler.

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Have to googled up the kamasutra things..

last time i accidentally found a member sharing the link..now lost it again..many positions

to explore ler.

Try to locate it...I use to have one like this as well but lost it....

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i think most gals like doggie style....my wife love it and even i enjoy it too...

69 style also one of our favourite...

nvr able to find the G even i put my finger in...must explore it ...

Speaking abt doggie, bleeding always happens whenever we used that style, any idea why?

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you mean she bleeds? most of the time if you're too high above horizontal during doggy, her vagina will be stretched upward hence higher chance for her skin between vagina and arse "koyak" due to friction

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