lori 0 Report post Posted August 11, 2010 I had this conversation with a friend, and she feels that she would prefer a cz at least rather than not having a ring at all. I personally think its ok to propose without one because its the meaning behind the proposal not the ring. Whats your opinion?? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cindykhor 0 Report post Posted August 11, 2010 for me, i hope my partner will provide a ring for propose..It would be more romantic and sincere hihi..>_< Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
katie_chua 0 Report post Posted August 11, 2010 there are 4 conditions for propose:1. rings2. flowers3. romantic dinner4. surprises Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sooklin 0 Report post Posted August 11, 2010 there are 4 conditions for propose:1. rings2. flowers3. romantic dinner4. surpriseshaha agreed. But I think the above mentioned items should be within budget. Don't get a 30,000 dollar ring if u can't afford it. Proposing without a ring is still meaningful. But why should you propose without a ring? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
happi 0 Report post Posted August 11, 2010 well, u can propose without a ring at the jewellery shop. heheh, at least she can choose her own ring!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
homeofbeauties 0 Report post Posted August 11, 2010 It's always best to propose with a ring otherwise you will need to get her something else in substitute of the ring. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mhyap1 0 Report post Posted August 11, 2010 there are 4 conditions for propose:1. rings2. flowers3. romantic dinner4. surprisesLet's see.. I don't even get a proposal. let alone to have condition for proposal. but am already happily married with a daughter now. lols.. probably bcoz we have been together for too many years. it's more of like a "mutual agreement" that we finally decided to tie the knot... :p Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
qarezma 0 Report post Posted August 12, 2010 I had this conversation with a friend, and she feels that she would prefer a cz at least rather than not having a ring at all. I personally think its ok to propose without one because its the meaning behind the proposal not the ring. Whats your opinion??first of all, all this story abt proposing, ring & on the knees is an image created by the west. And still, it is just an image created by the society. Why do we need to adhere to all this? The important thing is the love & sincerity between the couple. The mutual feeling & understanding of settling down is most important. I surely dont want to be proposed with a $100K ring by a guy who doesnt appreciate me. Alright, so my hubby did propose to me with a ring (just simple, not expensive) on his knees, what made it special is the moment that we cherished in planning our life together. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
panda1020 0 Report post Posted August 12, 2010 1. rings3. romantic dinner4. surprisesi have the above 3 for my proposal. i think if you propose without a ring, you may need to get something else.btw, my friend's bf proposed with tagheuer watch. i think a porposal with something is better than nothing, at least some good ideas or surprises. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
skye 0 Report post Posted August 12, 2010 depends on individual... u can always sub the ring for something else.future brother in law actually proposed using a necklace. some other propose with other things. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
natalyn 0 Report post Posted August 13, 2010 no ring is ok... sub w something else lo...but then again, u dun hv to get an expensive ring, just a simple one will do...i personally prefer something other than a ring, since i x wear my rings as often as i like, maybe a watch, earrings or an all expense paid trip???hehehehe... since mine was a 'mutual agreement' scenario *smacks own head*, nOThInG lo....haha, d most important thing is to do things within ur means... v do not hv to conform to the norm:) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cas 0 Report post Posted August 13, 2010 My hubby proposed without a ring and still I said yes. It's hard to get a ring without knowing her ring size etc. And sometimes it's even better when she gets to pick the ring herself - at least it's something she'll love and you know it will suit her great. Just make sure if you're going to propose without a ring, at least do something romantic - like take her out to a nice dinner before you pop the question. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jetfynn 0 Report post Posted August 20, 2010 Mine happened something like 18 years ago with this:"Let's get married...."Only brought her to the shop to buy identical rings to match. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kaizoku 0 Report post Posted August 21, 2010 1. Ring2. Picnic3. Surprise4. Parc du Champ de MarsNo flowers..would be too obvious. had champagne for picnic though. heh heh. caught her by surprise when i went down on one knee. Without ring should be OK unless you are absolutely 110% sure that she's the not so romantic kind and doesn't mind it. But as with most women...they would love to have the whole 9 yards. Some want it, some don't need it. Find out.Get her ring size some other method. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sweet juicy 0 Report post Posted August 28, 2010 I think most of bride hope get a ring Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kfloo 0 Report post Posted August 30, 2010 But mine case is ... since i already bought her a ring which she known as a propose ring so how? i need to buy another ring to propose again in a romantic dinner ? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kaizoku 0 Report post Posted August 31, 2010 u alredi bought and gave her the ring and told her THAT is an engagement ring OR she decided it herself? If she take it as being engaged liao....hard to surprise her anymore. Unless you tell her you wanna make it official by taking her to a romantic dinner....as "pou fan sou". Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Matthew 0 Report post Posted September 3, 2010 there are 4 conditions for propose:1. rings2. flowers3. romantic dinner4. surprisesYep,I think these are necessary,the rings represent "u r mine!" it's a very romantic stuff~~ Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites