dotdot81 0 Report post Posted September 20, 2010 Hi All,I'm very new here and I'm planning for my marriage sometime next year.I'm from a Chinese Christian family so we do not know much about the chinese ceremony. My hubby's side is Buddhist, but he also do not know much because his mother is not experience. However we are both Hokkiens.Can anyone help or teach me what to for GDL? Does my hubby still need to GDL to my family since we are Chinese Christian? Does he need to give but do not give the jostick and candles which will be used for prayers?I am actually living in with my hubby now although we are not married, do I need to go back my family's home first before the GDL?Appreciate any comments. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites