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hi all, I just delivered my baby 3 mths ago. The confinement lady I hired is very good. Her age is around 50+ , she is very good in cooking. She cooked averagely 3 dishes for me every day for every meal. She is not that calculative person. Before I hire her, I did contact few confinement lady, normally all only cook for mother, and do everything for mother and baby. If u want confinement lady to cook and wash your hubby's clothes, must add money.

But this aunty I told her, nobody cook and wash for my hubby, then she did all for my hubby without adding money.

And she is hardworking too. Normally confinement lady will clean the kitchen only after they cook. but this aubty clean the whole hse for me EVERYDAY! FYI, I was breast feeding my baby during confinement. AUnty wunt wasttin time, she will go and wash the diapers when I breast feed my baby during midnite.

My hubby fetched her to my hse one nite b4 I discharged from hosp. When she reached my hse, she checked all the things in my hse. This is my 1st baby, so alotsa things also I duno and I also duno about the chinese pantang larang. So, after she cheking all the thing, the things that I didn't buy, she asked my hubby to bring her out to buy all the needed things. She even brought her own special pot haha....

The last day when she was here, she cut one box of the ginger foe me, garlic one box, and clear the chicken and cut all for me (just bought from market). She said she prepared all so that I can use it when needed.

The most important thing is the price also reasonable.My hubby and I also very appreciated her so we gave her additional angpao of RM300.

In conclusion, she is very gud la. I am very lucky that I hired her.

Dun misunderstand, she got no re/ship with me ;p and I wunt get any commission from her . Just that I know wanna find a good confinement lady really difficult, so I just wanna help :)

If anyone of u interested, can PM me, I can give the contact no. to you.

Hi shmily1314

Can you give me the contact of your CL? My e-mail add is krystal.soong@gmail.com

Thank you!

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Dear all,

I had my confinement 6 months back and man...I had to thank my lucky stars that we got a really good CL through the Confinement Agency.

Actually, getting CL from agency pure luck...it was really a risk to take.

My CL is Sister Yuk (I call her Yuk Cheh)...she is not the super traditional type of CL...as she works alot for those mummies in Spore and to be frank, mummies there are less traditional compare to those here.

She knows what is the limit of things I should and should not do....all the pantang and stuffs la.

To cut short my story, she is really a CL who really does her part...even if she had to sleep only 4 hrs at nite as my bb took some time to adjust to day and night time.

Her daily routine is to wake up 7 ish and start preparing the things for me for the day...boil water, cut ginger, wash my clothes and bb clothes, prepare by breakfast.

She would ask what I like to eat for breakfast and if I am ok with what she plan to cook for me.

She wash and hang my clothes and bb clothes...

Then she will start preparing for lunch for me...

After lunch she wash up and alternate days she would help me clean my hse...sweep and mop the floors and wash the toilets.

Then she will prepare water for me to wash up...and change the ginger water.

After all done, she will then take short nap with the bb then wakes up and prepare herself for dinner.

She don't eat the food she cook for me instead she will cook for herself as she will get sick eating my confinement food...TOO HEATY :)

At night she will start to put the soup or dessert to boil for the next day and always make sure i finish my red dates water as she will boil 1 big pot for me everyday.

She make sure I don't walk too much and stay in bed as much as possible.

And most importantly, she supports breastfeeding as I know some CL are lazy to bring the bb over to the mummy's room especially during the night time.

She is more excited than me when she sees the amt of milk I extract during each pump. Haha...

And of course...she LOVES BABY.

But really is not easy to book her and she is usually very booked out also most of the time.

Therefore if possible, do look for ur CL as early as possible.

Do PM me if you need her contact.

Hi sching2912,

Do you mind to give me the contact of your CL?

My e-mail is krystal.soong@gmail.com

Thank you!

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My CL is superb. She support breastfeeding, love baby, cook vey well and dont really laze around the house.

She would carry baby to me to breast feed and would sit beside me and talk to me even in the middle of the night. She would assemble and bring the pump for me every 2 hours so that I can build up my milk supply. After every pumping session, i just need to leave it on the table and she will wash, sterilize and store the milk for me and also help me to label the milk. I am still breastfeeding now because of her encouragement and support. She let me know that when I am too exhausted and need a break, it's perfectly okay to supplement with fm once so that me and baby can rest. She also teach my maid how to take cae of baby our way. Save me lots of energy as my maid handles my baby well from the first day she left.

She also cooks well and would cook whatever I wanna eat. I don't take Ginger so she wld find a way to sneak it into my food. Even after 40 days, I am still happy with her cooking. There will be 3 main meals everyday(eavh meal woulld have meat, vege and soup) and also some light snacks like red bean soup. At night, there would also be one big bowl of double boil herbs for me. She knows what to cook to build up milk supply. She also cooks for hubby and would ask him what he likes so that she can prepare them.

She would boil one big pot of shower herbs for me each day to let me wash up. She discourages hair washing and showering.

She is sooooooo good and caring till I am quite reluctant to let her go!

She would call me each day to check on baby after she left.

If anyone wants her contact can pm me.?

Hi yivoon

thank for sharing..could you e-mail me your CL's contact number as well? my e-mail is cheesetrt@yahoo.com

thanks alot

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Hi All,

Just finishing my confinement (last day 19 Jan!!!!) :cheers: and wanted to share with you my Confinement Lady, she's really very good. She works through an agency and also free lance so you can call her direct as well. She speaks Hokkien and Mandarin and Cantonese and some English - cooks fine, very good to baby (I can see that she really is very gentle and cares for baby), tolerant with me in the sense that she will try to get me to eat the traditional stuff but if I really don't want, she is flexible. Also, she is strong enough, can carry up pails of water for bathing up the stairs and is also fine with my dog. She also is alright with teaching my nanny in the last 2 weeks of her time here so the nanny is familiar with bathing, feeding, changing baby and etc.

She's got lots of stories and can talk but also knows when to leave you alone for your rest! :)

Her name is Mei Cheh and her number is 014-630 6211.

Hi Tanny

thanks for for sharing..could you tell me more bout Mei Cheh's cooking and hygiene?

thanks alot

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hi all, I just delivered my baby 3 mths ago. The confinement lady I hired is very good. Her age is around 50+ , she is very good in cooking. She cooked averagely 3 dishes for me every day for every meal. She is not that calculative person. Before I hire her, I did contact few confinement lady, normally all only cook for mother, and do everything for mother and baby. If u want confinement lady to cook and wash your hubby's clothes, must add money.

But this aunty I told her, nobody cook and wash for my hubby, then she did all for my hubby without adding money.

And she is hardworking too. Normally confinement lady will clean the kitchen only after they cook. but this aubty clean the whole hse for me EVERYDAY! FYI, I was breast feeding my baby during confinement. AUnty wunt wasttin time, she will go and wash the diapers when I breast feed my baby during midnite.

My hubby fetched her to my hse one nite b4 I discharged from hosp. When she reached my hse, she checked all the things in my hse. This is my 1st baby, so alotsa things also I duno and I also duno about the chinese pantang larang. So, after she cheking all the thing, the things that I didn't buy, she asked my hubby to bring her out to buy all the needed things. She even brought her own special pot haha....

The last day when she was here, she cut one box of the ginger foe me, garlic one box, and clear the chicken and cut all for me (just bought from market). She said she prepared all so that I can use it when needed.

The most important thing is the price also reasonable.My hubby and I also very appreciated her so we gave her additional angpao of RM300.

In conclusion, she is very gud la. I am very lucky that I hired her.

Dun misunderstand, she got no re/ship with me ;p and I wunt get any commission from her . Just that I know wanna find a good confinement lady really difficult, so I just wanna help :)

If anyone of u interested, can PM me, I can give the contact no. to you.

hi do you still have her contact number? my email lynn.tml@gmail.com thx alot

Hi Lynn,

Do you have that CL contact number? please email me at joldieho@hotmail.com.

Thanks

Hi.

Can I get the CL number? Please email me her number at fiontanlh@gmail.com. Thanks.

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My CL is superb. She support breastfeeding, love baby, cook vey well and dont really laze around the house.

She would carry baby to me to breast feed and would sit beside me and talk to me even in the middle of the night. She would assemble and bring the pump for me every 2 hours so that I can build up my milk supply. After every pumping session, i just need to leave it on the table and she will wash, sterilize and store the milk for me and also help me to label the milk. I am still breastfeeding now because of her encouragement and support. She let me know that when I am too exhausted and need a break, it's perfectly okay to supplement with fm once so that me and baby can rest. She also teach my maid how to take cae of baby our way. Save me lots of energy as my maid handles my baby well from the first day she left.

She also cooks well and would cook whatever I wanna eat. I don't take Ginger so she wld find a way to sneak it into my food. Even after 40 days, I am still happy with her cooking. There will be 3 main meals everyday(eavh meal woulld have meat, vege and soup) and also some light snacks like red bean soup. At night, there would also be one big bowl of double boil herbs for me. She knows what to cook to build up milk supply. She also cooks for hubby and would ask him what he likes so that she can prepare them.

She would boil one big pot of shower herbs for me each day to let me wash up. She discourages hair washing and showering.

She is sooooooo good and caring till I am quite reluctant to let her go!

She would call me each day to check on baby after she left.

If anyone wants her contact can pm me.?

Hi yivoon

thank for sharing..could you e-mail me your CL's contact number as well? my e-mail is cheesetrt@yahoo.com

thanks alot

Hi.

Can you give me your CL number? Please email me at fiontanlh@gmail.com. Thanks.

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Dear all,

I had my confinement 6 months back and man...I had to thank my lucky stars that we got a really good CL through the Confinement Agency.

Actually, getting CL from agency pure luck...it was really a risk to take.

My CL is Sister Yuk (I call her Yuk Cheh)...she is not the super traditional type of CL...as she works alot for those mummies in Spore and to be frank, mummies there are less traditional compare to those here.

She knows what is the limit of things I should and should not do....all the pantang and stuffs la.

To cut short my story, she is really a CL who really does her part...even if she had to sleep only 4 hrs at nite as my bb took some time to adjust to day and night time.

Her daily routine is to wake up 7 ish and start preparing the things for me for the day...boil water, cut ginger, wash my clothes and bb clothes, prepare by breakfast.

She would ask what I like to eat for breakfast and if I am ok with what she plan to cook for me.

She wash and hang my clothes and bb clothes...

Then she will start preparing for lunch for me...

After lunch she wash up and alternate days she would help me clean my hse...sweep and mop the floors and wash the toilets.

Then she will prepare water for me to wash up...and change the ginger water.

After all done, she will then take short nap with the bb then wakes up and prepare herself for dinner.

She don't eat the food she cook for me instead she will cook for herself as she will get sick eating my confinement food...TOO HEATY :)

At night she will start to put the soup or dessert to boil for the next day and always make sure i finish my red dates water as she will boil 1 big pot for me everyday.

She make sure I don't walk too much and stay in bed as much as possible.

And most importantly, she supports breastfeeding as I know some CL are lazy to bring the bb over to the mummy's room especially during the night time.

She is more excited than me when she sees the amt of milk I extract during each pump. Haha...

And of course...she LOVES BABY.

But really is not easy to book her and she is usually very booked out also most of the time.

Therefore if possible, do look for ur CL as early as possible.

Do PM me if you need her contact.

Hi sching2912,

Do you mind to give me the contact of your CL?

My e-mail is krystal.soong@gmail.com

Thank you!

Hi.

Can you give me your CL number? Please email me at fiontanlh@gmail.com. Thanks.

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Hi All, currently I am in confinement and it's going to end by next week.

This is actually my second confinement, and I had bad experience with my first one, so I am extremely satisfied with this CL that I am going to recommend her.

I have always this notion that a good CL should loves baby. And this quality is found in the CL that I hired at the moment. She is extremely patient with baby, and at the tiniest sound that my boy made (even at midnite and when she is snoring), she will wake up, get up and take a look at baby, and feed, change nappies. I know this since I am sleeping with baby and CL. (For me, I won't trust strangers with my precious).

She is very "chin chai", clean house, wash clothes (mine, daughter, and hb), cook for both me and hb, even help to take care of my daughter. I dun watch or on my tv, so she dun watch as well.

She also knows what to do, and will take charge once she arrived, so I would suggest to list down your requirement of what needs to do, what to be done, in the beginning.

I have a very comfortable relationship with her, sometimes I even have the feeling she sayang my son more than me, heheh.

Since she is still under my employment, I won't release her contacts yet. But if you need it, just PM me and I will provide her number.

I received no commission. I have had a bad CL before and understand how stressful it is, which is why I am sharing out when I met a good CL. :D

Hi Escudo, can you pls pm her contact number to me at cm88898@yahoo.com? Thanks a lot.

Hi There, can i have her nmber too? eleanor_heng@hotmail.com Thnx

Dear Escudo,

I am a new member here, current looking for CL during March 2011. Pls email your CL's contact to me, my email : caysk@hotmail.com or linhsw2002@yahoo.com

Regards,

Cat

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My CL is superb. She support breastfeeding, love baby, cook vey well and dont really laze around the house.

She would carry baby to me to breast feed and would sit beside me and talk to me even in the middle of the night. She would assemble and bring the pump for me every 2 hours so that I can build up my milk supply. After every pumping session, i just need to leave it on the table and she will wash, sterilize and store the milk for me and also help me to label the milk. I am still breastfeeding now because of her encouragement and support. She let me know that when I am too exhausted and need a break, it's perfectly okay to supplement with fm once so that me and baby can rest. She also teach my maid how to take cae of baby our way. Save me lots of energy as my maid handles my baby well from the first day she left.

She also cooks well and would cook whatever I wanna eat. I don't take Ginger so she wld find a way to sneak it into my food. Even after 40 days, I am still happy with her cooking. There will be 3 main meals everyday(eavh meal woulld have meat, vege and soup) and also some light snacks like red bean soup. At night, there would also be one big bowl of double boil herbs for me. She knows what to cook to build up milk supply. She also cooks for hubby and would ask him what he likes so that she can prepare them.

She would boil one big pot of shower herbs for me each day to let me wash up. She discourages hair washing and showering.

She is sooooooo good and caring till I am quite reluctant to let her go!

She would call me each day to check on baby after she left.

If anyone wants her contact can pm me.?

Hi yivoon

thank for sharing..could you e-mail me your CL's contact number as well? my e-mail is cheesetrt@yahoo.com

thanks alot

Hi yivoon

can you email CL's contact number to my email (evelyn_kwan3@yahoo.co.uk).

Thanks

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Dear all,

I had my confinement 6 months back and man...I had to thank my lucky stars that we got a really good CL through the Confinement Agency.

Actually, getting CL from agency pure luck...it was really a risk to take.

My CL is Sister Yuk (I call her Yuk Cheh)...she is not the super traditional type of CL...as she works alot for those mummies in Spore and to be frank, mummies there are less traditional compare to those here.

She knows what is the limit of things I should and should not do....all the pantang and stuffs la.

To cut short my story, she is really a CL who really does her part...even if she had to sleep only 4 hrs at nite as my bb took some time to adjust to day and night time.

Her daily routine is to wake up 7 ish and start preparing the things for me for the day...boil water, cut ginger, wash my clothes and bb clothes, prepare by breakfast.

She would ask what I like to eat for breakfast and if I am ok with what she plan to cook for me.

She wash and hang my clothes and bb clothes...

Then she will start preparing for lunch for me...

After lunch she wash up and alternate days she would help me clean my hse...sweep and mop the floors and wash the toilets.

Then she will prepare water for me to wash up...and change the ginger water.

After all done, she will then take short nap with the bb then wakes up and prepare herself for dinner.

She don't eat the food she cook for me instead she will cook for herself as she will get sick eating my confinement food...TOO HEATY :)

At night she will start to put the soup or dessert to boil for the next day and always make sure i finish my red dates water as she will boil 1 big pot for me everyday.

She make sure I don't walk too much and stay in bed as much as possible.

And most importantly, she supports breastfeeding as I know some CL are lazy to bring the bb over to the mummy's room especially during the night time.

She is more excited than me when she sees the amt of milk I extract during each pump. Haha...

And of course...she LOVES BABY.

But really is not easy to book her and she is usually very booked out also most of the time.

Therefore if possible, do look for ur CL as early as possible.

Do PM me if you need her contact.

Hi sching2912,

Do you mind to give me the contact of your CL?

My e-mail is krystal.soong@gmail.com

Thank you!

Hi.

Can you give me your CL number? Please email me at fiontanlh@gmail.com. Thanks.

Hi sching2912,

can you email CL's contact number to my email (evelyn_kwan3@yahoo.co.uk).

Thanks

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hi all, I just delivered my baby 3 mths ago. The confinement lady I hired is very good. Her age is around 50+ , she is very good in cooking. She cooked averagely 3 dishes for me every day for every meal. She is not that calculative person. Before I hire her, I did contact few confinement lady, normally all only cook for mother, and do everything for mother and baby. If u want confinement lady to cook and wash your hubby's clothes, must add money.

But this aunty I told her, nobody cook and wash for my hubby, then she did all for my hubby without adding money.

And she is hardworking too. Normally confinement lady will clean the kitchen only after they cook. but this aubty clean the whole hse for me EVERYDAY! FYI, I was breast feeding my baby during confinement. AUnty wunt wasttin time, she will go and wash the diapers when I breast feed my baby during midnite.

My hubby fetched her to my hse one nite b4 I discharged from hosp. When she reached my hse, she checked all the things in my hse. This is my 1st baby, so alotsa things also I duno and I also duno about the chinese pantang larang. So, after she cheking all the thing, the things that I didn't buy, she asked my hubby to bring her out to buy all the needed things. She even brought her own special pot haha....

The last day when she was here, she cut one box of the ginger foe me, garlic one box, and clear the chicken and cut all for me (just bought from market). She said she prepared all so that I can use it when needed.

The most important thing is the price also reasonable.My hubby and I also very appreciated her so we gave her additional angpao of RM300.

In conclusion, she is very gud la. I am very lucky that I hired her.

Dun misunderstand, she got no re/ship with me ;p and I wunt get any commission from her . Just that I know wanna find a good confinement lady really difficult, so I just wanna help :)

If anyone of u interested, can PM me, I can give the contact no. to you.

Hi shmily1314

Can you give me the contact of your CL? My e-mail add is krystal.soong@gmail.com

Thank you!

Hi shmily1314,

can you email CL's contact number to my email (evelyn_kwan3@yahoo.co.uk).

Thanks

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Hi All,

Just finishing my confinement (last day 19 Jan!!!!) :cheers: and wanted to share with you my Confinement Lady, she's really very good. She works through an agency and also free lance so you can call her direct as well. She speaks Hokkien and Mandarin and Cantonese and some English - cooks fine, very good to baby (I can see that she really is very gentle and cares for baby), tolerant with me in the sense that she will try to get me to eat the traditional stuff but if I really don't want, she is flexible. Also, she is strong enough, can carry up pails of water for bathing up the stairs and is also fine with my dog. She also is alright with teaching my nanny in the last 2 weeks of her time here so the nanny is familiar with bathing, feeding, changing baby and etc.

She's got lots of stories and can talk but also knows when to leave you alone for your rest! :)

Her name is Mei Cheh and her number is 014-630 6211.

Hi Tanny

thanks for for sharing..could you tell me more bout Mei Cheh's cooking and hygiene?

thanks alot

HI Cheesetart,

Sorry for the late reply. Mei Cheh is clean, no issues on that, bathes and brushes her teeth, washes her hair. The only thing I noticed was the cooking smell of her hands....at the moment, cannot quite remember what smell but maybe it was all the ginger she was cooking...you know when people do alot of cooking, they have that smell about their hands? But basically none of us had any issues with her hygiene. (Actually I noticed cos she was helping me massage my breasts for milk expression).

Cooking-wise ok, she's flexible too, wasn't a drill sargeant in forcing me to eat stuff but did advise alot and try to gradually intro me to ginger and DOM and etc...adding more and more each time so I get used to it. She has got some fantastic dishes like her fried chicken and she takes great pride in presentation of food too - she used to own a coffee shop and cooked the 'tai chow' dishes there....

Hope this helps!

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Hi All,

Just finishing my confinement (last day 19 Jan!!!!) :cheers: and wanted to share with you my Confinement Lady, she's really very good. She works through an agency and also free lance so you can call her direct as well. She speaks Hokkien and Mandarin and Cantonese and some English - cooks fine, very good to baby (I can see that she really is very gentle and cares for baby), tolerant with me in the sense that she will try to get me to eat the traditional stuff but if I really don't want, she is flexible. Also, she is strong enough, can carry up pails of water for bathing up the stairs and is also fine with my dog. She also is alright with teaching my nanny in the last 2 weeks of her time here so the nanny is familiar with bathing, feeding, changing baby and etc.

She's got lots of stories and can talk but also knows when to leave you alone for your rest! :)

Her name is Mei Cheh and her number is 014-630 6211.

Hi Tanny

thanks for for sharing..could you tell me more bout Mei Cheh's cooking and hygiene?

thanks alot

HI Cheesetart,

Sorry for the late reply. Mei Cheh is clean, no issues on that, bathes and brushes her teeth, washes her hair. The only thing I noticed was the cooking smell of her hands....at the moment, cannot quite remember what smell but maybe it was all the ginger she was cooking...you know when people do alot of cooking, they have that smell about their hands? But basically none of us had any issues with her hygiene. (Actually I noticed cos she was helping me massage my breasts for milk expression).

Cooking-wise ok, she's flexible too, wasn't a drill sargeant in forcing me to eat stuff but did advise alot and try to gradually intro me to ginger and DOM and etc...adding more and more each time so I get used to it. She has got some fantastic dishes like her fried chicken and she takes great pride in presentation of food too - she used to own a coffee shop and cooked the 'tai chow' dishes there....

Hope this helps!

Hi Tanny

wow..that's great to hear and looking forward to trying out her dishes..thanks alot for your infor

take care

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i have a question about hiring CL... the price we pay for the CL does it include the meals? what i mean is, do we need to buy the raw cooing materials by self for the CL to cook? :wacko3:

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pal,

you'll have to buy the veggie/ meat for the CL to cook for you. What you paid is basically only the "salary".

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My CL is superb. She support breastfeeding, love baby, cook vey well and dont really laze around the house.

She would carry baby to me to breast feed and would sit beside me and talk to me even in the middle of the night. She would assemble and bring the pump for me every 2 hours so that I can build up my milk supply. After every pumping session, i just need to leave it on the table and she will wash, sterilize and store the milk for me and also help me to label the milk. I am still breastfeeding now because of her encouragement and support. She let me know that when I am too exhausted and need a break, it's perfectly okay to supplement with fm once so that me and baby can rest. She also teach my maid how to take cae of baby our way. Save me lots of energy as my maid handles my baby well from the first day she left.

She also cooks well and would cook whatever I wanna eat. I don't take Ginger so she wld find a way to sneak it into my food. Even after 40 days, I am still happy with her cooking. There will be 3 main meals everyday(eavh meal woulld have meat, vege and soup) and also some light snacks like red bean soup. At night, there would also be one big bowl of double boil herbs for me. She knows what to cook to build up milk supply. She also cooks for hubby and would ask him what he likes so that she can prepare them.

She would boil one big pot of shower herbs for me each day to let me wash up. She discourages hair washing and showering.

She is sooooooo good and caring till I am quite reluctant to let her go!

She would call me each day to check on baby after she left.

If anyone wants her contact can pm me.?

Hi,

Can I have your CL's contact number please? irenelss @ gmail dot com

Thank you.

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I have a very good confinement lady.. i just delivered my baby on 26 sep 2010.. and finally i have time to blog about her services with me.. she is really good and you may read more about her and see her photography in my blog http://yvonnefong.blogspot.com

I hope to share with everyone for such a good helper I have during my confinement month. for me I think personality is most important.. she is clean, tidy, helpful, soft spoken, not calculative very good handling baby.. but cooking wise is a bit boring.. or maybe I am boring with 30 days confinement food..

Hi Yvonne...can I have Lan Jie phone no.?

My email : amannequin@hotmail.com or amannequin@asia.com

Thanks....

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hi all, I just delivered my baby 3 mths ago. The confinement lady I hired is very good. Her age is around 50+ , she is very good in cooking. She cooked averagely 3 dishes for me every day for every meal. She is not that calculative person. Before I hire her, I did contact few confinement lady, normally all only cook for mother, and do everything for mother and baby. If u want confinement lady to cook and wash your hubby's clothes, must add money.

But this aunty I told her, nobody cook and wash for my hubby, then she did all for my hubby without adding money.

And she is hardworking too. Normally confinement lady will clean the kitchen only after they cook. but this aubty clean the whole hse for me EVERYDAY! FYI, I was breast feeding my baby during confinement. AUnty wunt wasttin time, she will go and wash the diapers when I breast feed my baby during midnite.

My hubby fetched her to my hse one nite b4 I discharged from hosp. When she reached my hse, she checked all the things in my hse. This is my 1st baby, so alotsa things also I duno and I also duno about the chinese pantang larang. So, after she cheking all the thing, the things that I didn't buy, she asked my hubby to bring her out to buy all the needed things. She even brought her own special pot haha....

The last day when she was here, she cut one box of the ginger foe me, garlic one box, and clear the chicken and cut all for me (just bought from market). She said she prepared all so that I can use it when needed.

The most important thing is the price also reasonable.My hubby and I also very appreciated her so we gave her additional angpao of RM300.

In conclusion, she is very gud la. I am very lucky that I hired her.

Dun misunderstand, she got no re/ship with me ;p and I wunt get any commission from her . Just that I know wanna find a good confinement lady really difficult, so I just wanna help :)

If anyone of u interested, can PM me, I can give the contact no. to you.

Hi shmily....can I have the number as well?

email : amannequin@hotmail.com

Thanks for the help in advance...

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Dear all,

I had my confinement 6 months back and man...I had to thank my lucky stars that we got a really good CL through the Confinement Agency.

Actually, getting CL from agency pure luck...it was really a risk to take.

My CL is Sister Yuk (I call her Yuk Cheh)...she is not the super traditional type of CL...as she works alot for those mummies in Spore and to be frank, mummies there are less traditional compare to those here.

She knows what is the limit of things I should and should not do....all the pantang and stuffs la.

To cut short my story, she is really a CL who really does her part...even if she had to sleep only 4 hrs at nite as my bb took some time to adjust to day and night time.

Her daily routine is to wake up 7 ish and start preparing the things for me for the day...boil water, cut ginger, wash my clothes and bb clothes, prepare by breakfast.

She would ask what I like to eat for breakfast and if I am ok with what she plan to cook for me.

She wash and hang my clothes and bb clothes...

Then she will start preparing for lunch for me...

After lunch she wash up and alternate days she would help me clean my hse...sweep and mop the floors and wash the toilets.

Then she will prepare water for me to wash up...and change the ginger water.

After all done, she will then take short nap with the bb then wakes up and prepare herself for dinner.

She don't eat the food she cook for me instead she will cook for herself as she will get sick eating my confinement food...TOO HEATY :)

At night she will start to put the soup or dessert to boil for the next day and always make sure i finish my red dates water as she will boil 1 big pot for me everyday.

She make sure I don't walk too much and stay in bed as much as possible.

And most importantly, she supports breastfeeding as I know some CL are lazy to bring the bb over to the mummy's room especially during the night time.

She is more excited than me when she sees the amt of milk I extract during each pump. Haha...

And of course...she LOVES BABY.

But really is not easy to book her and she is usually very booked out also most of the time.

Therefore if possible, do look for ur CL as early as possible.

Do PM me if you need her contact.

Hi sching....can you send me her contacts?

Thanks....email : amannequin@hotmail.com

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Hi All, currently I am in confinement and it's going to end by next week.

This is actually my second confinement, and I had bad experience with my first one, so I am extremely satisfied with this CL that I am going to recommend her.

I have always this notion that a good CL should loves baby. And this quality is found in the CL that I hired at the moment. She is extremely patient with baby, and at the tiniest sound that my boy made (even at midnite and when she is snoring), she will wake up, get up and take a look at baby, and feed, change nappies. I know this since I am sleeping with baby and CL. (For me, I won't trust strangers with my precious).

She is very "chin chai", clean house, wash clothes (mine, daughter, and hb), cook for both me and hb, even help to take care of my daughter. I dun watch or on my tv, so she dun watch as well.

She also knows what to do, and will take charge once she arrived, so I would suggest to list down your requirement of what needs to do, what to be done, in the beginning.

I have a very comfortable relationship with her, sometimes I even have the feeling she sayang my son more than me, heheh.

Since she is still under my employment, I won't release her contacts yet. But if you need it, just PM me and I will provide her number.

I received no commission. I have had a bad CL before and understand how stressful it is, which is why I am sharing out when I met a good CL. :D

Can i have the contact as well?

email : amannequin@asia.com or amannequin@hotmail.com

Thanks for the help...

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My confinement lady is pretty good. She cooks very well(cooked for my hubby if he's at home). Very hygienic person. She trained my maid from scratch in doing house work and taking care of my baby. She's not calculative at all and have good knowledge in taking care of the baby.She even keep notes on some of the details on taking care of baby.She speaks fluent English. My husband and I are very satisfied with her service that we extended her service for another 3 weeks. She has given me a good confinement experience !

Hi kiwipat....can I have the contact?

email : amannequin@asia.com or amannequin@hotmail.com

Thanks in advance....

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My CL is superb. She support breastfeeding, love baby, cook vey well and dont really laze around the house.

She would carry baby to me to breast feed and would sit beside me and talk to me even in the middle of the night. She would assemble and bring the pump for me every 2 hours so that I can build up my milk supply. After every pumping session, i just need to leave it on the table and she will wash, sterilize and store the milk for me and also help me to label the milk. I am still breastfeeding now because of her encouragement and support. She let me know that when I am too exhausted and need a break, it's perfectly okay to supplement with fm once so that me and baby can rest. She also teach my maid how to take cae of baby our way. Save me lots of energy as my maid handles my baby well from the first day she left.

She also cooks well and would cook whatever I wanna eat. I don't take Ginger so she wld find a way to sneak it into my food. Even after 40 days, I am still happy with her cooking. There will be 3 main meals everyday(eavh meal woulld have meat, vege and soup) and also some light snacks like red bean soup. At night, there would also be one big bowl of double boil herbs for me. She knows what to cook to build up milk supply. She also cooks for hubby and would ask him what he likes so that she can prepare them.

She would boil one big pot of shower herbs for me each day to let me wash up. She discourages hair washing and showering.

She is sooooooo good and caring till I am quite reluctant to let her go!

She would call me each day to check on baby after she left.

If anyone wants her contact can pm me.?

Hi hi yivoon....can you pls send me her contact?

email : amannequin@asia.com or amannequin@hotmail.com

Thanks for the help !!!

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dear yivoon,

can i hv your CL contact as well? am looking for one right know. all others seems to be booked. :wacko3:

thx ya~

My CL is superb. She support breastfeeding, love baby, cook vey well and dont really laze around the house.

She would carry baby to me to breast feed and would sit beside me and talk to me even in the middle of the night. She would assemble and bring the pump for me every 2 hours so that I can build up my milk supply. After every pumping session, i just need to leave it on the table and she will wash, sterilize and store the milk for me and also help me to label the milk. I am still breastfeeding now because of her encouragement and support. She let me know that when I am too exhausted and need a break, it's perfectly okay to supplement with fm once so that me and baby can rest. She also teach my maid how to take cae of baby our way. Save me lots of energy as my maid handles my baby well from the first day she left.

She also cooks well and would cook whatever I wanna eat. I don't take Ginger so she wld find a way to sneak it into my food. Even after 40 days, I am still happy with her cooking. There will be 3 main meals everyday(eavh meal woulld have meat, vege and soup) and also some light snacks like red bean soup. At night, there would also be one big bowl of double boil herbs for me. She knows what to cook to build up milk supply. She also cooks for hubby and would ask him what he likes so that she can prepare them.

She would boil one big pot of shower herbs for me each day to let me wash up. She discourages hair washing and showering.

She is sooooooo good and caring till I am quite reluctant to let her go!

She would call me each day to check on baby after she left.

If anyone wants her contact can pm me.?

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Hi everyone,

Please take note that Shmily 1314's CL is not travel to KL or Selangor, she is willing to travel to North Malaysia, so those from Kl & Selangor u can look for other CL, & for those who stay in North Malaysia, if u want her CL's contact, u can pm me..

Cheers,

amandachew :biggrin:

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