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Next year 2012 seems to be a busy year for Dragon babies and mommies are fast in securing their confinement lady! I need help, does anyone have any good CL to recommend? Please PM / email me their CL contact numbers to sugar_stic@hotmail.com. Thank you!!

hi,

Mu mum is a CL. When is your EDD? My mum only available from May onwards. U can contact me at angelcastle888@hotmail.com for further details.

Thanks

Cheers

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as I understand how hard to find a good CL.. I just finished my confinement on 24 nov.. and auntie stay with me until yesterday.. I like her service very much.. and I have write an review of hers at my blog.. you can see her picture... and some of her cooking dishes too..

http://yvonnefong.blogspot.com/2011/11/gre...tai-auntie.html

Hi Yvonne,

Please kindly pm me the contact no. of your CL at sftien@gmail.com. Thank you.

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Hi All,

Sorry for the late reply, found back this thread finally!

Kuan Jie contact is 019-249-2993

Hope this helps!

Hi Potatoes. Thank you for sharing.

I have contacted Kuan Jie and she mentioned that she needs to take nap in the afternoon. Did she do so when she was with you? Is she very strict with all those pantang larang? Is she flexible in adapting views from books, i.e. Jennifer Hor's book and etc? Is she pro-breast feeding?

I stumbled in one of the websites/ blogs (can't remember the name of the same) with a comment on Kuan by Potatoes, not sure if it was you. It said she is OK but not spotless clean. Was that your comment? If yes, what did she do which makes you to give such comment?

Appreciate your reply.

Thank you very much.

Hi Heart,

Sorry for the late reply, just review this thread.

When Kuan was taking care of my bb, my bb wakes up almost every 2 hours for feed, diaper change, etc...so because of that, she naps when the baby naps longer in the afternoons, usually around 3pm-5pm.

Her typical day - wakes up around 7am, boils water, preparation of stuffs, boil keichi water, boil water for me to wash my face/brush teeth and also cook breakfast for me. Around 10am, she showers my bb, dress up,etc and then does the laundry and then prepares for lunch and also, boils the herbal bath thing for me. After cleaning up, she does house chores , fold clothes and etc and then naps around 3pm till 5pm but that's also because my bb naps slightly longer in the day. So around 5pm, she starts to prepare for dinner, makes sure my herbal-drinks are boiling in order.

Around 7.30 or 8pm, she wipes my bb clean and prepares him for bedtime but that's because i set out to "routine" my bb's bedtime at 8.30pm or no later than 9pm. And also boils water again for me to wipe up. She goes to bed with my bb...in my bb's room and does not watch tv or anything like that.

On Pantang Larang stuffs, she is quite traditional. But you can persist on what you want and be firm on it but she is very transparent and has very good intentions. She said i shouldn't wash my hair until 30days...and when I said I couldn't, she asked if it's ok to boil more herbal water so i can wash my hair. But i didn't have the heart to disappoint her, so i curi-curi shower hahah. I think she knew but kept quiet.

As for breastfeeding, I didn't manage to bf my bb. But she is ok with breast feeding and open to the idea if the mommy wants pump milk for night feeds or bring bb to the mommy...either way,she is alright. And she knows the goodness of bf for bb.

As for the cleanliness part, no issues with Laundry. however I am abit of a clean freak but usually puiyet does not do any house chores at all and some that I know, only works for families that has a maid. For example, like my bathroom being drowned in herbal-bath-water everyday, there will be some yellow stains on the side of the wall, she cleans the toilet but it would not scrub away all the stains. Can't blame her, she's gotta keep an eye on my bb, abit difficult to give a good thorough cleaning.

Hope this helps

Hi,

Kuan Jie is currently with me and as described by potatoes, her routine is about the same as mine. But what I wanted to add in is that she helps bath, cook and take care of my elder son as well. My elder son gets along extremely well with her except he doesn't want Kuan Jie to feed him or sleep with him.

As I have a toddler to take care of and being a working mum, I dun really have time to clean my house except on weekends. So, my house was kinda of not so tidy to start with, so I'm actually quite surprised to see my home squeaky clean with things in order. So, no complaints on cleanliness part.

She is pro-breastfeeding and helps me wash and sterilise my pump parts. She feeds my baby ebm at night so that I could rest at night but she did ask me first my preference. She insists that I rest as much as possible.

As potatoes mentioned, she prefers me not to wash my hair during the confinement period , I told her its ok since I didn't bath or wash my hair when I had my first child, she was a bit aghast. I mentioned that I will just wipe my body clean daily so she boils the herbal bath thing for me.

As for baby, she prefers to use cloth diaper in the daytime, and disposable ones at night. She also prefers to use cotton to wipe baby's bum instead of baby wipes so its kinda of economical.

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Dear all,

I had my confinement 6 months back and man...I had to thank my lucky stars that we got a really good CL through the Confinement Agency.

Actually, getting CL from agency pure luck...it was really a risk to take.

My CL is Sister Yuk (I call her Yuk Cheh)...she is not the super traditional type of CL...as she works alot for those mummies in Spore and to be frank, mummies there are less traditional compare to those here.

She knows what is the limit of things I should and should not do....all the pantang and stuffs la.

To cut short my story, she is really a CL who really does her part...even if she had to sleep only 4 hrs at nite as my bb took some time to adjust to day and night time.

Her daily routine is to wake up 7 ish and start preparing the things for me for the day...boil water, cut ginger, wash my clothes and bb clothes, prepare by breakfast.

She would ask what I like to eat for breakfast and if I am ok with what she plan to cook for me.

She wash and hang my clothes and bb clothes...

Then she will start preparing for lunch for me...

After lunch she wash up and alternate days she would help me clean my hse...sweep and mop the floors and wash the toilets.

Then she will prepare water for me to wash up...and change the ginger water.

After all done, she will then take short nap with the bb then wakes up and prepare herself for dinner.

She don't eat the food she cook for me instead she will cook for herself as she will get sick eating my confinement food...TOO HEATY :)

At night she will start to put the soup or dessert to boil for the next day and always make sure i finish my red dates water as she will boil 1 big pot for me everyday.

She make sure I don't walk too much and stay in bed as much as possible.

And most importantly, she supports breastfeeding as I know some CL are lazy to bring the bb over to the mummy's room especially during the night time.

She is more excited than me when she sees the amt of milk I extract during each pump. Haha...

And of course...she LOVES BABY.

But really is not easy to book her and she is usually very booked out also most of the time.

Therefore if possible, do look for ur CL as early as possible.

Do PM me if you need her contact.

Hi Sching,

Appreciate you can email Yuk Jie contact to me at yee2603@yahoo.com.

Thks.

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My confinement lady is pretty good. She cooks very well(cooked for my hubby if he's at home). Very hygienic person. She trained my maid from scratch in doing house work and taking care of my baby. She's not calculative at all and have good knowledge in taking care of the baby.She even keep notes on some of the details on taking care of baby.She speaks fluent English. My husband and I are very satisfied with her service that we extended her service for another 3 weeks. She has given me a good confinement experience !

Hi Kiwipat,

Can you give me your CL contact at yee2603@yahoo.com ?

Can I know if her cooking is the traditional type ? Does she allow u wash ur hair ?

Thks .

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My CL is superb. She support breastfeeding, love baby, cook vey well and dont really laze around the house.

She would carry baby to me to breast feed and would sit beside me and talk to me even in the middle of the night. She would assemble and bring the pump for me every 2 hours so that I can build up my milk supply. After every pumping session, i just need to leave it on the table and she will wash, sterilize and store the milk for me and also help me to label the milk. I am still breastfeeding now because of her encouragement and support. She let me know that when I am too exhausted and need a break, it's perfectly okay to supplement with fm once so that me and baby can rest. She also teach my maid how to take cae of baby our way. Save me lots of energy as my maid handles my baby well from the first day she left.

She also cooks well and would cook whatever I wanna eat. I don't take Ginger so she wld find a way to sneak it into my food. Even after 40 days, I am still happy with her cooking. There will be 3 main meals everyday(eavh meal woulld have meat, vege and soup) and also some light snacks like red bean soup. At night, there would also be one big bowl of double boil herbs for me. She knows what to cook to build up milk supply. She also cooks for hubby and would ask him what he likes so that she can prepare them.

She would boil one big pot of shower herbs for me each day to let me wash up. She discourages hair washing and showering.

She is sooooooo good and caring till I am quite reluctant to let her go!

She would call me each day to check on baby after she left.

If anyone wants her contact can pm me.?

Hi Yivoon,

Can you please e-mail me her contact to me at yee2603@yahoo.com? Thks.

Rgds: Y E

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Hi,

I'm a newbie here. Tomorrow is my baby full moon and I'm very excited to be released from the confinement period.

The confinement lady which I have is reasonable. She is good in cooking and always cook different dishes for me everyday. She does not mind to cook for my hubby and son as well. She also does all the house chores for me. She is sort of like a family friend to us because she did the confinement for my two sister in-laws and my sister as well. If I'm not mistaken, she is fully booked until Oct/Nov.

Hi Csh,

Can you please emali ur CL contact to me at yee2603@yahoo.com ?

Thks

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My CL is superb. She support breastfeeding, love baby, cook vey well and dont really laze around the house.

She would carry baby to me to breast feed and would sit beside me and talk to me even in the middle of the night. She would assemble and bring the pump for me every 2 hours so that I can build up my milk supply. After every pumping session, i just need to leave it on the table and she will wash, sterilize and store the milk for me and also help me to label the milk. I am still breastfeeding now because of her encouragement and support. She let me know that when I am too exhausted and need a break, it's perfectly okay to supplement with fm once so that me and baby can rest. She also teach my maid how to take cae of baby our way. Save me lots of energy as my maid handles my baby well from the first day she left.

She also cooks well and would cook whatever I wanna eat. I don't take Ginger so she wld find a way to sneak it into my food. Even after 40 days, I am still happy with her cooking. There will be 3 main meals everyday(eavh meal woulld have meat, vege and soup) and also some light snacks like red bean soup. At night, there would also be one big bowl of double boil herbs for me. She knows what to cook to build up milk supply. She also cooks for hubby and would ask him what he likes so that she can prepare them.

She would boil one big pot of shower herbs for me each day to let me wash up. She discourages hair washing and showering.

She is sooooooo good and caring till I am quite reluctant to let her go!

She would call me each day to check on baby after she left.

If anyone wants her contact can pm me.?

Hi yivoon

thank for sharing..could you e-mail me your CL's contact number as well? my e-mail is cheesetrt@yahoo.com

thanks alot

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My CL is superb. She support breastfeeding, love baby, cook vey well and dont really laze around the house.

She would carry baby to me to breast feed and would sit beside me and talk to me even in the middle of the night. She would assemble and bring the pump for me every 2 hours so that I can build up my milk supply. After every pumping session, i just need to leave it on the table and she will wash, sterilize and store the milk for me and also help me to label the milk. I am still breastfeeding now because of her encouragement and support. She let me know that when I am too exhausted and need a break, it's perfectly okay to supplement with fm once so that me and baby can rest. She also teach my maid how to take cae of baby our way. Save me lots of energy as my maid handles my baby well from the first day she left.

She also cooks well and would cook whatever I wanna eat. I don't take Ginger so she wld find a way to sneak it into my food. Even after 40 days, I am still happy with her cooking. There will be 3 main meals everyday(eavh meal woulld have meat, vege and soup) and also some light snacks like red bean soup. At night, there would also be one big bowl of double boil herbs for me. She knows what to cook to build up milk supply. She also cooks for hubby and would ask him what he likes so that she can prepare them.

She would boil one big pot of shower herbs for me each day to let me wash up. She discourages hair washing and showering.

She is sooooooo good and caring till I am quite reluctant to let her go!

She would call me each day to check on baby after she left.

If anyone wants her contact can pm me.?

pls email me her contact thx :) qjamiep@yahoo.com

Hi,

I'm looking for CL now, could u please email me her contact @ chua_shiaupin@yahoo.com

Thanks.

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My CL is superb. She support breastfeeding, love baby, cook vey well and dont really laze around the house.

She would carry baby to me to breast feed and would sit beside me and talk to me even in the middle of the night. She would assemble and bring the pump for me every 2 hours so that I can build up my milk supply. After every pumping session, i just need to leave it on the table and she will wash, sterilize and store the milk for me and also help me to label the milk. I am still breastfeeding now because of her encouragement and support. She let me know that when I am too exhausted and need a break, it's perfectly okay to supplement with fm once so that me and baby can rest. She also teach my maid how to take cae of baby our way. Save me lots of energy as my maid handles my baby well from the first day she left.

She also cooks well and would cook whatever I wanna eat. I don't take Ginger so she wld find a way to sneak it into my food. Even after 40 days, I am still happy with her cooking. There will be 3 main meals everyday(eavh meal woulld have meat, vege and soup) and also some light snacks like red bean soup. At night, there would also be one big bowl of double boil herbs for me. She knows what to cook to build up milk supply. She also cooks for hubby and would ask him what he likes so that she can prepare them.

She would boil one big pot of shower herbs for me each day to let me wash up. She discourages hair washing and showering.

She is sooooooo good and caring till I am quite reluctant to let her go!

She would call me each day to check on baby after she left.

If anyone wants her contact can pm me.?

Hi Yivoon,

can u please give me cl contact. my email address is svenja__e@hotmail.com thank you very much:)

Hi shmily1314,

i forget to give you my email address is svenja__e@hotmail.com. thank you very much :)

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as I understand how hard to find a good CL.. I just finished my confinement on 24 nov.. and auntie stay with me until yesterday.. I like her service very much.. and I have write an review of hers at my blog.. you can see her picture... and some of her cooking dishes too..

http://yvonnefong.blogspot.com/2011/11/gre...tai-auntie.html

hi yvonne,

can pm me the contact pls. or u can email me at leeyenalice@hotmail.com

thanks in advance

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as I understand how hard to find a good CL.. I just finished my confinement on 24 nov.. and auntie stay with me until yesterday.. I like her service very much.. and I have write an review of hers at my blog.. you can see her picture... and some of her cooking dishes too..

http://yvonnefong.blogspot.com/2011/11/gre...tai-auntie.html

Hi Yvonne

Can email your CL contact no to summerbabies.09@gmail.com

I cant pm u :(

My fren needed CL urgently too..

Thanks ya ~~

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Hi!Just wanna check if anyone here have use the service of Madam Tan KL listed in zenmom.my? I've enquire on her availability through Mrs Chin.I've tried calling so many confinement lady but none available during my EDD in April next year.Seems like price for next year is increased as well....any ideas?

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Hi Jacq,

My mom provides confinement help. She has over 20 years of mid-wife experience in a private hospital in PJ.

She is available for April 2012 and is willing to travel. She supports both breast or bottle feeding depending on your preference. She's well-versed with the cooking/food part and her cooking is much sought after by our friends.

If you're interested, you can contact me at likim.ganATgmail.com (replace AT with @).

Hi!Just wanna check if anyone here have use the service of Madam Tan KL listed in zenmom.my? I've enquire on her availability through Mrs Chin.I've tried calling so many confinement lady but none available during my EDD in April next year.Seems like price for next year is increased as well....any ideas?

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Hi!Just wanna check if anyone here have use the service of Madam Tan KL listed in zenmom.my? I've enquire on her availability through Mrs Chin.I've tried calling so many confinement lady but none available during my EDD in April next year.Seems like price for next year is increased as well....any ideas?

hi Jacq,

My mum is a confinement lady. Please email me at angelcastle888@hotmail.com should you interested for more details.

Cheers

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hi everyone,

i need a cl urgently. called few but all fully booked. can someone recommend a good cl to me.my email is svenja__e@hotmail.com .thank you very much :)

hi svenja,

My mum is a confinement lady. Please email me at angelcastle888@hotmail.com should you interested for more details.

Cheers

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I have a bad experience also with the CL. I have pre-booked her and pay a deposits of RM700 to her 6 months ago to secure her services. End up she called my wife up this morning to tell her that she have another confinement this January 2012. I was like WTF, i have pre-booked her 6 months ago and pay her deposits and now she tell me that she got another confinement service in January 2012. Btw my wife is due this month on the 21st Dec 2011.

I was like starting to curse her like hell (in my mind lar of course). How irresponsible this lady is ??? mad.gif Now I'm searching high and low to have a replacement for the CL. Do you guys have any recommendations ??

BEWARE of this CL name MADAM LOH 016-3150498. She is from Ipoh and she usually hang around at this hotel YH at Jalan Alor.

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I have a bad experience also with the CL. I have pre-booked her and pay a deposits of RM700 to her 6 months ago to secure her services. End up she called my wife up this morning to tell her that she have another confinement this January 2012. I was like WTF, i have pre-booked her 6 months ago and pay her deposits and now she tell me that she got another confinement service in January 2012. Btw my wife is due this month on the 21st Dec 2011.

I was like starting to curse her like hell (in my mind lar of course). How irresponsible this lady is ??? mad.gif Now I'm searching high and low to have a replacement for the CL. Do you guys have any recommendations ??

BEWARE of this CL name MADAM LOH 016-3150498. She is from Ipoh and she usually hang around at this hotel YH at Jalan Alor.

Hi,

Sorry to hear bout your bad experience. You may want to contact my confinement lady Kuan 019-2492993. She is with me till 14/12/11. You may read about her reviews from me and potatoes from earlier this thread.

Hope this helps.

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I have a bad experience also with the CL. I have pre-booked her and pay a deposits of RM700 to her 6 months ago to secure her services. End up she called my wife up this morning to tell her that she have another confinement this January 2012. I was like WTF, i have pre-booked her 6 months ago and pay her deposits and now she tell me that she got another confinement service in January 2012. Btw my wife is due this month on the 21st Dec 2011.

I was like starting to curse her like hell (in my mind lar of course). How irresponsible this lady is ??? mad.gif Now I'm searching high and low to have a replacement for the CL. Do you guys have any recommendations ??

BEWARE of this CL name MADAM LOH 016-3150498. She is from Ipoh and she usually hang around at this hotel YH at Jalan Alor.

Hi, sorry to hear that you are experiencing this at such a crucial moment. If you have not found one, perhaps you want to try this contact (Mei Ling Jie - 016-3267797) introduced by my colleague. I wanted to book her when i deliver in June 2012 but she has been reserved by someone else at the same time. Understand that she is free now. Best of luck!

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Dear all,

I had my confinement 6 months back and man...I had to thank my lucky stars that we got a really good CL through the Confinement Agency.

Actually, getting CL from agency pure luck...it was really a risk to take.

My CL is Sister Yuk (I call her Yuk Cheh)...she is not the super traditional type of CL...as she works alot for those mummies in Spore and to be frank, mummies there are less traditional compare to those here.

She knows what is the limit of things I should and should not do....all the pantang and stuffs la.

To cut short my story, she is really a CL who really does her part...even if she had to sleep only 4 hrs at nite as my bb took some time to adjust to day and night time.

Her daily routine is to wake up 7 ish and start preparing the things for me for the day...boil water, cut ginger, wash my clothes and bb clothes, prepare by breakfast.

She would ask what I like to eat for breakfast and if I am ok with what she plan to cook for me.

She wash and hang my clothes and bb clothes...

Then she will start preparing for lunch for me...

After lunch she wash up and alternate days she would help me clean my hse...sweep and mop the floors and wash the toilets.

Then she will prepare water for me to wash up...and change the ginger water.

After all done, she will then take short nap with the bb then wakes up and prepare herself for dinner.

She don't eat the food she cook for me instead she will cook for herself as she will get sick eating my confinement food...TOO HEATY :)

At night she will start to put the soup or dessert to boil for the next day and always make sure i finish my red dates water as she will boil 1 big pot for me everyday.

She make sure I don't walk too much and stay in bed as much as possible.

And most importantly, she supports breastfeeding as I know some CL are lazy to bring the bb over to the mummy's room especially during the night time.

She is more excited than me when she sees the amt of milk I extract during each pump. Haha...

And of course...she LOVES BABY.

But really is not easy to book her and she is usually very booked out also most of the time.

Therefore if possible, do look for ur CL as early as possible.

Do PM me if you need her contact.

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Dear all,

will be very appreciate if you guys can introduce me any good CL. My EDD is March 22, next year.

When I was in 7 weeks time, I booked a CL without paying deposit (she asked to pay later and when I met her). However, When I'm in five months time, I called her to inform will be visiting her soon then she said she had confirmed with other client. Was so mad at her as I did inform will be visiting her around November and wondering she is okay to pay later. She said okay cause she knows somebody of mine. How come she can just promised to others and without informing me...

Tried to find more than 10 CL but all of them have been booked. Sincerely hope that anyone may provide me the good CL's contact. Please PM me at chris_laydi@hotmail.com ... Once again, appreciate it a lot a lot a lot

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QUOTE (qzenp @ Aug 22 2011, 02:08 PM)

QUOTE (yivoon @ Mar 8 2011, 05:21 PM)

My CL is superb. She support breastfeeding, love baby, cook vey well and dont really laze around the house.

She would carry baby to me to breast feed and would sit beside me and talk to me even in the middle of the night. She would assemble and bring the pump for me every 2 hours so that I can build up my milk supply. After every pumping session, i just need to leave it on the table and she will wash, sterilize and store the milk for me and also help me to label the milk. I am still breastfeeding now because of her encouragement and support. She let me know that when I am too exhausted and need a break, it's perfectly okay to supplement with fm once so that me and baby can rest. She also teach my maid how to take cae of baby our way. Save me lots of energy as my maid handles my baby well from the first day she left.

She also cooks well and would cook whatever I wanna eat. I don't take Ginger so she wld find a way to sneak it into my food. Even after 40 days, I am still happy with her cooking. There will be 3 main meals everyday(eavh meal woulld have meat, vege and soup) and also some light snacks like red bean soup. At night, there would also be one big bowl of double boil herbs for me. She knows what to cook to build up milk supply. She also cooks for hubby and would ask him what he likes so that she can prepare them.

She would boil one big pot of shower herbs for me each day to let me wash up. She discourages hair washing and showering.

She is sooooooo good and caring till I am quite reluctant to let her go!

She would call me each day to check on baby after she left.

If anyone wants her contact can pm me.?

pls email me her contact thx :) qjamiep@yahoo.com

Hi, can you email her contact no to sjeng78@yahoo.com ? Thanksss

Can I have her contact too? please email to chris_laydi@hotmail.com

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