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jaylow

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  1. Some are sold. Still got some balance. Sorry for late reply. for faster response email : jaylowss@Hotmail.com
  2. my experience is don't let the milk stain go dry..then there is no way to wash off the stain. while its wet u go rinse and wash with water..or soak it first. then u wash it with those clothes....only the stain will be removed. I like tupperware the environmental friendly washing powder (safe for baby). It has lavender smell with "built in" softener. just one scoop for one wash. very good. they have enzymes inside too. I find it is very good to wash those stains and dirt away and smell good feel good too. sorry i am not tupperware member but i am using it :P
  3. ya, if your bb sitter is good then i also agree you should do all the above. but mine she took one newborn in. can't handle my son. i felt she don't take care of my son already. since the bb come in, my son always come home with dirty and long fingernails and ear wax is always a lot. Before that i won't have that kind of problem. then she can't handle she now feed my son dinner at 4pm+. This is crazy...too early. so now how can she demand so many things from me rite? she always on the winning side. well, she kira too much ...so i also won't be kind to her... last time she kira i don't mind because she still can handle my son well. now she too greedy take in the newborn. now she is handling 4 alone. i will take my son out. well, u are lucky......
  4. zeroflower, yeah..u are rite. its a great lesson learnt! never also use bb sitter's hb or relative as contractor!!! YUp, will pray for God to give me strength to go on with son without bb sitter....haiz... thanks for your sharing and concern
  5. CFA, thanks for your advice. Err..my next bb sitter will be MYSELF will also put him in some kindy classes..so that he got some days mix and play with little friends. My son at this age i think i can put him in day care and learn extra things under the kindy teachers care. He is 3...going to be 3 and halfby Mar 2011
  6. to me i won't request or hope she will buy anything for my son. relationship wise we always buy food and buy dinner for them. she stay in big family. parents stay in. relatives also stay in. we all buy also include those pple. then i won;t know what is good relationship with them i will chat iwth her all time...seems good but when it comes to money...she got one tahit lalat on ther face. my mom met her once also said give her feeling bb istter is money will go in but never come out type". ha ha ha anyway thanks for sharing. i realize how come the fees still aroun rm600? i heard subang and puchong now around 800 for a start d. day and night is 1500 to all : kindly state your area ya. My bb sitter is puchong area.
  7. yeah..this is sort of is called replacement to me its good. but my bb sitter wont' do it. anything extra she will charge. and she take take i will lose..thats all.
  8. Yeah, i would agree with you. i will also do same as you do if I were you. My bb sitter she very hard up for money. I also close one eye. let her earn extra for public holiday and on sat...rm50 each day. so each month i let her earn rm 200 on 4 sat..if 5 sat..rm250. and if public holiday ...more... so u can imagine i let her earn so much. I usually take my son to her only at 11am and before 7pm. so you think i kira with her or not? cos i ask her want to take care or not few days in advance? since she not goign anywhere..she said can, take your son here. i don't request her to help me to do it.... Well, i think also its genetic from per parents. her parents work together as contractors. i also let them do business by doing cement work in my house. very bad job done i also didn't complain. i just ask her dad" uncle, the floor tiles can create puddles when raining. its that ok?" he said he won't pay responsibility as did already what can he do? I mean when he put on cement before tiling my hb already sound to him got one area will create puddle. mean flooring not level enough. but he just ignored. now after that he said not responsible. so we realise the family culture is always they win and pple always lose. also he quoted us hacking price which his much higher. but his worker didn't do hacking before place new tiles. just put on top. then he still insist he charge us hacking price by square feet. have you met such contractor? he will never deduct out even we ask him to. just because our son is in his daughter's hand, we have to swallow our unhappiness. and also few weeks later...the concrete and tiles on top he did at most area sound hollow already and some area tiles came off. really we very lenient to them this is what we get....haiz...... its ok. we will drop our bb sitter after cny. cos too late to give notice. the more we think about it the more upset we are... thanks for sharing ya. Happy new year. so i feel she want to earn yet want to win...ask me pick up 5pm....i also keep quiet
  9. Jaylow, so far, my BS never take Annual Leave, only on Public Holiday or on Sat, when her children want to take her our for holiday. Before we agreed to give to this BS, we agreede the terms up fromt: Mon- Fri: from 8 am to 7 pm Sat: 8am to 1 pm Sun/State Public Holiday: Off Like I say, its a give and take, cos we normally send at about 8.30 am, after making sure that the Baby had his morning feed and poo-poo, so when we send, the BS is not kelam kabut and whenever we can, we pick up early but sometimes, later. But once, she had to take 2-days EL due to family issues and she offered to 'replace / pay back' but I said no need to be so calculative. Where do you stay, is it difficult to look for BS at your place? A relation with BS is just like with IL, a lot of give and take - cos your baby is in their hand, you must feel safe doing so. But if you are always doing the giving, its not so good. It seems that your BS is doing a lot of 'taking'. Have you tried to 'buy her heart' with some presents? How old is your Baby? When Baby is below 6 mths, its very easy to change BS. After they are 6 mths to about 2-years, babies get separation anxiety and would want some familar care taker. Changing BS during this period may be difficult but after they can walk, talk and reason, its not too bad.
  10. Now i realise my bbsitter is not truthful and won't want to clary when we had interview before we let her childcare our kid. Never mentioned CNY off how many days. but only when CNY comes then we kena. Last week on the 24th which is Friday (X Mas Eve day) she supposed to work. but she just tell me don't bring my boy cos she won't be in. Fullstop never mention this is her annual leave or will do replacement. I don't like that. My previous bb sitter even she take leave just to send her daughter to piano exams, she will refund me money although i say no need. Its the attitude issue I think. Thanks for enlighten me on the CNY annual leave though.....
  11. yeah...i agree with you. if the arrangement is like yours i would be happy about it. initially she never talk about what annual leave when meet up for interview. but she did mentioned that if want her work on non working days would be rm50 per day. no discount. but she dare ask me take the boy back at 5pm cos she want to go out. Thanks for sharing dear...
  12. i let my boy play with cooking set from ikea. and i cook playdough using wilton colour paste to make the food that he cooks real. i think its ok for boys to play with this. it is not girlish i find. also i let him play with real baking set and when i am baking, i let him play by helping me. on the mixer...speed of mixer. the mixing of batter etc...i start him when he is before 3.
  13. Hi Mommies, Just wonder do your babysitters have annual leave? My cousin just keep me updated that her other friends said their baby sitters have annual leave of one week. I just wonder who set those trend. Never heard before in Malaysia.... My babysitter every year Chinese New Year she will take around one week off without replacing back. While engaging with her initially she never mentioned this. only said don't work on public holidays. Recently she made me mad. She told me she not working on 24th December this month but never said will replace back!!! I find this attitude is horrible. where got such policy? And when i ask her take care on the days she not working like public holiday or saturday, she charge me rm50 per day. suka suka tell me come early at 5pm pick up my son. Would appreciate your input. Merry Christmas and happy new year! JL
  14. Hi, I have overstocked of Eu Yan San bao yin dan of 12 boxes. All new and sealed. Reason to sell is my boy 4 yrs old seems don't need to use so much. expiring in 2013. Per box is rm 25. Interested parties kindly email : jaylowss@hotmail.com JL
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