My hubby is havin affair for 1.5 years. i found out tru his msn history. he is havin cyber sex wif his mistress while i'm havin my confinement at my mum house. He confess and he promise to stay away and never contact the mistress. This is what he say to the mistress : " My wife find out our relationship, we can't continue. but i'm happy with the previous moment we have and i do appreciate u." i finally forgive my hubby and tell him that he can't go out alone with girl or initially chat with them. i did mention a few girl name that i prohibit him to in touch cause i hav bad feeling about this few girl. One of it is my hubby 'sister in christ' named ABC. 3.5 mths later, i saw another msn history between my hubby and ABC. my hubby wrote " missing u badly, seriously", "muack", "kiss". i'm mad and query my hubby. my hubby say he swear that he din in touch with ABC since he promise me, this time because ABC not felling well, so he sent the message. but why he wanna delete it and i find this history in the recycle bin. My hubby say he dun wan me to misunderstand. Is these "muack" and "kiss" normal?????ABC also sent "muack" and "kiss" to my hubby. ABC is attached and she love his boy fren. She say she juz respect my hubby as brother, nothing else. i keep thinking of this and scare that another affair will occur, so i msn ABC, ask her not to intouch with my hubby and i tell her that this is my hubby instruction. i tell ABC that my hubby dun like her but hav to entertain her coz dun wan to hurt her. i tell my hubby that i msn ABC, my hubby say nothing and he say he will not in touch with ABC anymore. This really shock me....( my hubby coonfess to me after i find out he sent sms to his ex-mistress) My hubby sms his ex mistress, ask her to do him a favour. ask her to sent msg to ABC and apologize to ABC for my harsh word. the mistress call my hubby, my hubby tell her that i check his call, sms, msn, etc. he dun wan ABC to hurt becoz of their affair, my hubby say ABC is victim and ignorant. I'm really sad, disappoint and hurt again!!!!! he break his promise, he call them and apologize to them..... When my hubby promise me, seem like he is so sincere and wanna a new start between us. how come he keep making mistake and hurt me. my hubby know that i love him very much, he know i'll forgive him. Should i divorce and i can't imagine the consequences... my parents, relative, frens..................... He is the one betray me and i'm the one suffering. my hubby ask me not to look backward and he say wat he wan is to save our marriage and he will do anything to make our life going. Can some one tell me should i ever believe my hubby again? why he choose to hurt me rather than ABC? Do u guys think that my hubby is havin affair with ABC also?
