Manone 0 Report post Posted April 15, 2009 well well well... im a man and this topic has got some heat. no matter how much we men including myself would like to try it, it should never be advocated as something normal. it is abnormal, but as many weak human beings we tend to try certain prohibited areas... i can relate to Lost1's experience but from the other side of the river... not it is not being gay, bi- or having a gene... it could be result of porn, which made us feel it is fun and tighter that usual... in relationships where both had earlier sexual experiences (except) anal it may also represent that little virginity that is left... traumatic, sad but true... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
corrinne 0 Report post Posted April 17, 2009 Personally I really against it as that particular area is for "out" only and consider dirty to me. Why man would like to try it is because of all the AV movie, as the gal act till they are "really" enjoyed it till screamed to the top of their voice! I don't think that area have any feeling nerve/cell at all, caused if that area did have it, then everyone of us will try to eat more and go to the toilet more often!!! Haa haa haa haaa... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladychatterly_lover 0 Report post Posted May 7, 2009 I've a very big issue about having anal sex and indirectly this leads to many arguements with my hb. My hb will try to have anal sex with me when he gets very intimated sometimes. This hurts me physically and also mentally. I really don't know how to push him away in the middle of intercourse or reject him because I feel that this might make him embarass and jeopardise our sex life. I watched lots of movies and readings and I believe everyone will have their own way to reach the "peak" during the intercourse. I've also been finding excuses for my hb because this might be a way of him to have the ultimate enjoyment. To me, I don't find it healthy and it is not the right way of making love. The only thing I can explain within my capability is he's a bisexual or have the "hormones of being gay". I've asked him many times about his opinion towards those homosexuals and he totally disagrees of having this kind of relationship. But I always argue about him going out with his male friends. I feel is ok for him to bring me along for any makan makan section. This is a very healthy lifestyle where you can enjoy your happy moment between your love ones and friends. So whenever he's with his friends to outstation, I'll get very paranoid. Thinking that they might have affairs...I really don't know how to talk to him about this. If I were to sit down and talk to him things like that...99% will jeopardise our relationship...by the way, do you think he'll tell me the truth if he really is doing that behind me? Surprisingly, I'm not afraid of him looking for other women for sex because I've the sense I've already made him crazy for making love...but the sodomy thing is the only thing I cannot satisfy him....I don't want divorce to be the solution. Tell me if anyone also having this problem..Dear Lost1,And to all ladies/women out there ..... maybe you guys might learn something and share things like this (and btw ah ..... no offense intended to anybody ok) ...........Lost1, maybe i can help you a bit ........ oh, btw am ladychatterlys_lover and am new here ......... Ok, may i ask if you find it repulsive all together for someone having anal sex ......??? Are you the least curious of how does it feell at all .......???If your answer to the first question is Yes - It is going to be difficult in trying to convince you that guys are prone to like having anal sex and to those woman who have tried it may like it at some point of time too .......... unless you do it slow and steady an always, always with a condom ...........And if the 2nd answer is Yes/No (I don't know) / I want to, but am afraid ........ Then you need my help gurl ............. To start and if you if you want to maybe you can start practising by lubricating a couple of fingers of your left hand with 'KY Jelly' or normal mild soap and slowly insert the index finger in the ass well relaxing all muscles, at the same time in a squatting position whilst the free right hands start to play with youc clit and pussy .........If you have suceeded to have done that, now try with 2 fingers (the index and the 3rd finger la) ......... whilst still in a squatting position and playing with whatever in the front and in toal relaxed situation (no clenching of pussy or ass muscles .......) then start sliding it in and out of your ass at the same time also ...........After you are comfortable with 2 fingers, now with 3 adding in the 4th finger of your hand (but do it in such a way that it is bunched up together as to create like a pyramind) making sure all the fingers are very well lubricated ........ and keep your fingernails short for this first time .........Keep sliding your fingers in and out and whilst palying with yourself and if you have it in you, wou will have an orgasm that you would have never sexperience it before ..........Ok, the logic of starting with 1, 2 and 3 (lubricated) fingers is for you to get used the the size for a penis penetrating you in the ass ........ If and when you are ready ..... always start off this way before having anal sex ......... (this was how my lover taught me ........)It would also be best to have anal sex with a condom as it's already lubricated and it just needs sextra lubrication before penetration and making sure that the anus is also wel l lubricatebefore penetration ............With this i hope that some of you woman or guys can/will get statisfaction out of this sexpereince ............As for Lost1, i do hope that you try it as it might save your marriage by not having your hubby searching something new as like you are afraid of ..............Ciao ........p/s ...... would love any feedback from yall out there ........... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
chiewwl 0 Report post Posted May 7, 2009 anal sex is fine.. provided hav enough lubricate...and ur partner agrees... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gal289 0 Report post Posted May 8, 2009 Wow ladychatterly_lover... very detailed But me dunno if I dare to do that...Hmm... u read the classics? That's quite a nice book..Lady chatterly's lover... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
scsc 0 Report post Posted May 8, 2009 Anyone tried before and still doing it? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ladychatterly_lover 0 Report post Posted May 8, 2009 Anyone tried before and still doing it?Yes ....... and i still love it ......... and of course with some clitoral sitmulation at the same time ........ and also i do agree with Mei Toh ..... my lover/partner also let's me 'f _ _ _ s' him in the ass with a Strap On and i know foe sure that he is not gay or a bi cos get gets horny and a good hard on when he sees me naked and when i got hold of a gay porn just to see how and what it was - he actually vomitted when he saw it ........So desn't mean that when a guy likes anal that he is gay or a bi ........... in fact he was the one to suggest using the strap on on me cos i was curious to know and feel how it would be like to have two you know what in you ........ and i tell you it was marvelous climax ........Then i thought of using it on him - he was game ...... so as the story goes, it was history and now he likes it too ....... he says that when he comes sexpecially when the you know what touches his prostate glands, it gives him maximum pleasure even i myself can't give him ....... but the thought of another man doing it to him ....... he will go pale and vomit at the thought of it ........So both of us are doing it and still do and love every minute of it ........ btw ........ in fact am also of a bi curious also cos i have had tried it with another woman also and i also love every minute of it also ..........Last but not least am a sexually liberated woman due to my partner and and i love every minute of it .......... Ciao Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dream_kk 0 Report post Posted May 10, 2009 have not try doing it....I have no idea as well, becoz worry it is too rough....do need to use lubricant or wear condom is better. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
corrinne 0 Report post Posted May 11, 2009 Anyone tried before and still doing it?Yes ....... and i still love it ......... and of course with some clitoral sitmulation at the same time ........ and also i do agree with Mei Toh ..... my lover/partner also let's me 'f _ _ _ s' him in the ass with a Strap On and i know foe sure that he is not gay or a bi cos get gets horny and a good hard on when he sees me naked and when i got hold of a gay porn just to see how and what it was - he actually vomitted when he saw it ........So desn't mean that when a guy likes anal that he is gay or a bi ........... in fact he was the one to suggest using the strap on on me cos i was curious to know and feel how it would be like to have two you know what in you ........ and i tell you it was marvelous climax ........Then i thought of using it on him - he was game ...... so as the story goes, it was history and now he likes it too ....... he says that when he comes sexpecially when the you know what touches his prostate glands, it gives him maximum pleasure even i myself can't give him ....... but the thought of another man doing it to him ....... he will go pale and vomit at the thought of it ........So both of us are doing it and still do and love every minute of it ........ btw ........ in fact am also of a bi curious also cos i have had tried it with another woman also and i also love every minute of it also ..........Last but not least am a sexually liberated woman due to my partner and and i love every minute of it .......... Ciao You are 1 HOT and WILD gal!! I salute you.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gal289 0 Report post Posted May 11, 2009 Anyone tried before and still doing it?Yes ....... and i still love it ......... and of course with some clitoral sitmulation at the same time ........ and also i do agree with Mei Toh ..... my lover/partner also let's me 'f _ _ _ s' him in the ass with a Strap On and i know foe sure that he is not gay or a bi cos get gets horny and a good hard on when he sees me naked and when i got hold of a gay porn just to see how and what it was - he actually vomitted when he saw it ........So desn't mean that when a guy likes anal that he is gay or a bi ........... in fact he was the one to suggest using the strap on on me cos i was curious to know and feel how it would be like to have two you know what in you ........ and i tell you it was marvelous climax ........Then i thought of using it on him - he was game ...... so as the story goes, it was history and now he likes it too ....... he says that when he comes sexpecially when the you know what touches his prostate glands, it gives him maximum pleasure even i myself can't give him ....... but the thought of another man doing it to him ....... he will go pale and vomit at the thought of it ........So both of us are doing it and still do and love every minute of it ........ btw ........ in fact am also of a bi curious also cos i have had tried it with another woman also and i also love every minute of it also ..........Last but not least am a sexually liberated woman due to my partner and and i love every minute of it .......... Ciao You are 1 HOT and WILD gal!! I salute you.... Ah but there is something hot about a shy and demure lady too... trust me... I'd like to try what Lady Chatterly's Lover suggests but when you don't have a willing partner...what to do!! Hmm I've always wanted to try "getting it on" with a gal... see lah if my darling is ok with 3-some... wah me getting more "da dan" (bold) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
minshome 0 Report post Posted May 11, 2009 Anyone tried before and still doing it?Yes ....... and i still love it ......... and of course with some clitoral sitmulation at the same time ........ and also i do agree with Mei Toh ..... my lover/partner also let's me 'f _ _ _ s' him in the ass with a Strap On and i know foe sure that he is not gay or a bi cos get gets horny and a good hard on when he sees me naked and when i got hold of a gay porn just to see how and what it was - he actually vomitted when he saw it ........So desn't mean that when a guy likes anal that he is gay or a bi ........... in fact he was the one to suggest using the strap on on me cos i was curious to know and feel how it would be like to have two you know what in you ........ and i tell you it was marvelous climax ........Then i thought of using it on him - he was game ...... so as the story goes, it was history and now he likes it too ....... he says that when he comes sexpecially when the you know what touches his prostate glands, it gives him maximum pleasure even i myself can't give him ....... but the thought of another man doing it to him ....... he will go pale and vomit at the thought of it ........So both of us are doing it and still do and love every minute of it ........ btw ........ in fact am also of a bi curious also cos i have had tried it with another woman also and i also love every minute of it also ..........Last but not least am a sexually liberated woman due to my partner and and i love every minute of it .......... Ciao You are 1 HOT and WILD gal!! I salute you.... Ah but there is something hot about a shy and demure lady too... trust me... I'd like to try what Lady Chatterly's Lover suggests but when you don't have a willing partner...what to do!! Hmm I've always wanted to try "getting it on" with a gal... see lah if my darling is ok with 3-some... wah me getting more "da dan" (bold) wah...gal289, u should be marry to someone who willing to do 3P...u r so adventures, wana try new thing aso then...let me know if u tried.... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gal289 0 Report post Posted May 11, 2009 wah...gal289, u should be marry to someone who willing to do 3P...u r so adventures, wana try new thing aso then...let me know if u tried....Too bad my FH is not the adventurous type.. until I told him there are many sex styles besides the usual, doggie n girl on top he went: "YA MEH? Didn't know wor..." Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sLeePyWannaBe 0 Report post Posted May 11, 2009 Anyone tried before and still doing it?Yes ....... and i still love it ......... and of course with some clitoral sitmulation at the same time ........ and also i do agree with Mei Toh ..... my lover/partner also let's me 'f _ _ _ s' him in the ass with a Strap On and i know foe sure that he is not gay or a bi cos get gets horny and a good hard on when he sees me naked and when i got hold of a gay porn just to see how and what it was - he actually vomitted when he saw it ........So desn't mean that when a guy likes anal that he is gay or a bi ........... in fact he was the one to suggest using the strap on on me cos i was curious to know and feel how it would be like to have two you know what in you ........ and i tell you it was marvelous climax ........Then i thought of using it on him - he was game ...... so as the story goes, it was history and now he likes it too ....... he says that when he comes sexpecially when the you know what touches his prostate glands, it gives him maximum pleasure even i myself can't give him ....... but the thought of another man doing it to him ....... he will go pale and vomit at the thought of it ........So both of us are doing it and still do and love every minute of it ........ btw ........ in fact am also of a bi curious also cos i have had tried it with another woman also and i also love every minute of it also ..........Last but not least am a sexually liberated woman due to my partner and and i love every minute of it .......... Ciao You are 1 HOT and WILD gal!! I salute you.... Ah but there is something hot about a shy and demure lady too... trust me... I'd like to try what Lady Chatterly's Lover suggests but when you don't have a willing partner...what to do!! Hmm I've always wanted to try "getting it on" with a gal... see lah if my darling is ok with 3-some... wah me getting more "da dan" (bold) gal289, dont try 3p if either one of u will get jealous...i wanting to try 3p recently.when imagining, i can accept but think deeper, i cant!but if a girl having 3p with us, i dont mind, hahaha...selfish huh? :wacko3: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gal289 0 Report post Posted May 11, 2009 Anyone tried before and still doing it?Yes ....... and i still love it ......... and of course with some clitoral sitmulation at the same time ........ and also i do agree with Mei Toh ..... my lover/partner also let's me 'f _ _ _ s' him in the ass with a Strap On and i know foe sure that he is not gay or a bi cos get gets horny and a good hard on when he sees me naked and when i got hold of a gay porn just to see how and what it was - he actually vomitted when he saw it ........So desn't mean that when a guy likes anal that he is gay or a bi ........... in fact he was the one to suggest using the strap on on me cos i was curious to know and feel how it would be like to have two you know what in you ........ and i tell you it was marvelous climax ........Then i thought of using it on him - he was game ...... so as the story goes, it was history and now he likes it too ....... he says that when he comes sexpecially when the you know what touches his prostate glands, it gives him maximum pleasure even i myself can't give him ....... but the thought of another man doing it to him ....... he will go pale and vomit at the thought of it ........So both of us are doing it and still do and love every minute of it ........ btw ........ in fact am also of a bi curious also cos i have had tried it with another woman also and i also love every minute of it also ..........Last but not least am a sexually liberated woman due to my partner and and i love every minute of it .......... Ciao You are 1 HOT and WILD gal!! I salute you.... Ah but there is something hot about a shy and demure lady too... trust me... I'd like to try what Lady Chatterly's Lover suggests but when you don't have a willing partner...what to do!! Hmm I've always wanted to try "getting it on" with a gal... see lah if my darling is ok with 3-some... wah me getting more "da dan" (bold) gal289, dont try 3p if either one of u will get jealous...i wanting to try 3p recently.when imagining, i can accept but think deeper, i cant!but if a girl having 3p with us, i dont mind, hahaha...selfish huh? :wacko3: I think I share your sentiments... If i'm going to i want an extra guy...hehe Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
corrinne 0 Report post Posted May 11, 2009 wah...gal289, u should be marry to someone who willing to do 3P...u r so adventures, wana try new thing aso then...let me know if u tried....Too bad my FH is not the adventurous type.. until I told him there are many sex styles besides the usual, doggie n girl on top he went: "YA MEH? Didn't know wor..." Haa haa haa...My HB is those adventures type of person and always wanted to try new things! But as for me, hee hee hee...you know lah....typical type of lady character....pitty my HB... :wacko3: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dream_kk 0 Report post Posted May 11, 2009 Have anyone actually enjoy anal sex...i myself no chance of trying it....i think i will just ask my wife to AS me Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
alexalex 0 Report post Posted May 12, 2009 Try before with my wife she do enjoy me to enjoy but it only happen 1 or 2 time in month need to put extra lube. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
scsc 0 Report post Posted May 12, 2009 for those who tried before, not smelly and dirty meh? just curious... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
corrinne 0 Report post Posted May 12, 2009 For me is VERY painful, as sometimes my HB accidentally enter the wrong hole and only the tip went in, I already can't tahan......I think this is why they come out with this term: "Pain In The Ass"!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BeCool 0 Report post Posted May 14, 2009 i only heard about "Stick on your arse" Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gal289 0 Report post Posted May 15, 2009 For me is VERY painful, as sometimes my HB accidentally enter the wrong hole and only the tip went in, I already can't tahan......I think this is why they come out with this term: "Pain In The Ass"!!How in the world does he enter the wrong hole? Both hole different coordinates wor... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sLeePyWannaBe 0 Report post Posted May 15, 2009 For me is VERY painful, as sometimes my HB accidentally enter the wrong hole and only the tip went in, I already can't tahan......I think this is why they come out with this term: "Pain In The Ass"!!How in the world does he enter the wrong hole? Both hole different coordinates wor... THAT'S CALL ACCIDENT!!!sometimes when didnt on the light sure will have this kind of problem 1... sure will have some accident while intercoursing...nobody knows...haha Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
steven.7676 0 Report post Posted May 15, 2009 for me anal sex is no go. find it dirty even if you wear condom and the smell. respect the people who enjoy it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
gal289 0 Report post Posted May 15, 2009 For me is VERY painful, as sometimes my HB accidentally enter the wrong hole and only the tip went in, I already can't tahan......I think this is why they come out with this term: "Pain In The Ass"!!How in the world does he enter the wrong hole? Both hole different coordinates wor... THAT'S CALL ACCIDENT!!!sometimes when didnt on the light sure will have this kind of problem 1... sure will have some accident while intercoursing...nobody knows...hahaSure or not wan But really the guy would know if it is suddenly "very,very tight" mah... Unless the guy just cucuk in without first aiming meh.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BeCool 0 Report post Posted May 15, 2009 compass rosak mah... lost direction Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
